sarah warbelow: that's right. we were trying to have a dual strategy. how do we then marriage equality in states that don't have constitutional amendments, where there are legislatures finally to having conversations. new hampshire, maryland washington state. at the same time, fighting back against constitutional amendments. we were happy -- having an interesting trajectory. disproportionately, as we work the state legislatures, we were finding success. many people have an unrealistic expectation of how quickly legislation moves as a result of those successes. within two state sessions, marriage equality was passing. simultaneously, we had states running in place bans on same-sex couples being able to marry. the only time we had truly effectively prohibited a ban on same-sex couples marrying was in minnesota in 2012. that was the same year in which people voted in maryland and maine, and washington state to affirmatively granted same-sex couples the right to marry. that same year we also lost a constitutional amendment in north carolina. it really was a