she was always late for her sauna.by the time we got in there, we need to call 911 to get them out because they're completely dehydrated. i say that because that was the excitement they had having tatum around -- farrah around. see what i mean. having farrah around was thrilling to these boys but not to tatum. not to tatum. she saw that. she resented that. >> even as you talk about them, they are so interwoven in your emotional life. i just get a sense that you had this incredible love of both of these women but it couldn't happen at the same time. this was the real greek tragedy of the whole thing for you. you couldn't have one and have the other in the same way. >> why? >> because one felt very neglected and left out. >> because she created a demon seed and it wasn't right that she be around. it wasn't right. she would tear us down not build us up. >> tatum to be fair to you in our interview, didn't say anything critical about farrah at all. she said before she died she actually did talk to her and she enjoyed that e

and sauna diplomacy finished diplomats are held word of a steamy prize for promoting sauna culture abroad and helping forge international relations find out more at our key dot com. now let's take a look at some of the stories from around the world nato warplanes bombed tripoli overnight as rebels moved closer to the capital but forcing back broken off and troops smoke and fire were seen rising from a number of areas across the city state t.v. said the blast had rocked military and civilian areas although there were no immediate reports of casualties. the u.s. has accused of the sudanese government of blocking aid deliveries to thousands of people fleeing fighting in the disputed region and us president barack obama has called for a cease fire following a devastating bombing campaign near the north-south border one hundred fifty thousand people have been displaced either side of the border because of tensions ahead of south sudan's formal independence which comes into force on the ninth of july. the chairman of the us federal reserve has warned any delay in making payments on the governme

and sauna diplomacy finished diplomats are awarded the prize for promoting sauna culture abroad and helping forge international relations find out more dot com. meantime syrian authorities are being accused of using a scorched earth strategy to suppress anti-government rebels in border areas of civilians forced to flee across the border are being housed in refugee camps in turkey according to activists over fourteen hundred people have died since the beginning of the anti-government uprising and mid march united states is trying to put more pressure on president washington of course what's happening by russia and china oppose any attempts to intervene in serious internal affairs through the u.n. and investigative journalist simon johnson of things the security council resolution would have little effect anyway. well it appears that both russia and china are going to show that there will be no u.n. security council resolution but even i think even if even if one would have been passed i don't think would have much credibility you see but the problem is is that the those who support the syria

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will what do you think us almost makes the point i make it if only one hundred pounds a week and a sauna comes last a month as a child got no sleep was someone i don't know just how bad i was sick no live one of them ministers at the home at the end of my rope. he's the responsible slayer in the. contract so you just lazy. i don't lose my job the german fool will see oh i want to be an altar boy. that is the way you want to be ordained and i want to turn my life around i live i really want to get in and parker being. founder of the. polar bear well if you rise up to it's made up we had no need that the stuff. that was the older boy in question has me i'll feel. i'm changing. as i will feel it because i am wearing something worth being. willing for everyone will respect me this year. just think. it's light. when father is in jail i listen to music he was building an apartment for me in the book without the proper permits. from the bill of an office building up on a roof no there's no i want to hear without an apartment a boy can't get married on air no one treats you like a grown man will

having a swimming pool or a sauna will change the assessed value of your property. i would get approval. it is the least improvement value that gets passed on. >> it is so extraordinarily expensive. >> increasing the square footage of your home and to assess the value. demolition of an existing structure in order to construct a new building -- i am not sure how that plays out. do they reassess it when you demolish it? i do not know, but it is on their list. new additions that are non- assessible. if you put new solar energy systems until january 1, 2010, like solar hot water heating, that does not trigger additional taxes. bathroom renovations, which include structural changes or plumbing changes, kitchen structural changes and upgrades of the system, taking the entire house or a portion of the house down to the studs, or a change in use from one to another -- residential to commercial or whatever -- they will consider the new assessed bellevue. repair, replacement of fixtures with similar quality is not assessible. plumbing to copper is not. replacement of circuit

what with there are also protests on many of our fights as particularly the pasta sons died in the sauna and i'm just looking through the wood she could see the dead lying increase of ten zero child they never made it out of the forest. then a group of volunteers sets out on an expedition they comb the site meter after meter. weapons and other objects made of metal really well underground. this is a soviet helmet it was a direct hit. you can see where the shot entered and exited. the returns to base the objects are carefully examined the latest expedition has turned up. a flask. but the searchers regard so-called medallions as the most valuable. these are small cases containing all important papers they carry the information that will help identify the soldier his age rank and the name of town or village where he was called up. it just so happens that we're from the same place as the dead soldier we're going to look for his relatives now one more fallen soldier has a name. if papers identifying the dead are found they are sent to officials a state archive each year adds more names to the

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insists that the deaths were a tragic accident, but prosecutors say he should have stopped the two-hour sauna-style spiritual cleansing after participants starting passing out and vomiting. >>> president obama has started what he says will be a steady pace of troop withdraraws from afghanistan. 10,000 service members will come home by year's end, but there are still major challenges i winding down the long war. here's martha raddatz. >> reporter: the president said u.s. troops have made significant progress in the fight against al qaeda. >> al qaeda remains dangerous, and we must be vigilant against attacks, but we have put al qaeda on a path to defeat, and we will not relent until the job is done. >> reporter: what's clear from his comments is that the focus in the future will be on counterterrorism, not a broader approach. >> of course, huge challenges remain. this is the beginning, but not the end, of our effort to wind down this war. >> reporter: and once the initial drawdown is over, it will continue. what has been the cost? in just 2011 the u.s. will spend more than $118 billion, and just sin

and sauna diplomacy finished diplomats are awarded a steamy prize for promoting song culture abroad and helping forge international relations i know more. now let's take a look at some other stories from around the world and pakistan's top spy agency has arrested five people accused of informing the cia ahead of the raid in which osama bin laden was killed the owner of a safe house run of by the cia to watch bin laden's compound is believed to be one of the detainees another is an army major who reportedly copied the license plate numbers of cars visiting the al qaida leaders compound the director of the cia raised the issue during a surprise visit to pakistan last week. syria says it's now safe for thousands of people who fled violence in the town of juicer all sure to turn over eight thousand civilians have taken refuge in neighboring turkey alone with all your military crackdown of the uprising against president bashar lasted the government says security around communications have been restored the town was electricity and water meanwhile according to reports the crackdown is so wide

but prosecutors say he should have stopped the two-hour, sauna-style spiritual cleansing after participantsick. ray was found guilty of negligent homicide rather than the more serious charge of manslaughter. he faces up to 12 years in prison. >>> lindsay lohan will be back in a los angeles courtroom later this morning so a judge can consider whether she violated her probation. lohan reportedly failed a court-ordered alcohol test last week. she has been under house arrest for violating another probation in a 2007 drunk driving case after taking a necklace from a store without permission. it's sort of easy to lose track of her legal troubles. >> here we go again, geez. >>> well, there is a cat in south florida which has used up one of its nine lives. >> yeah, the little feline escaped after this four-foot gator tried to make it dinner on a miami street. people in the neighborhood believe the gator may have come from a nearby canal. >> they say you really have to watch your pets down there. this happens quite a bit. it only took a few minutes for the trapper to catch the gator after he arrived

if you are walking barefoot on a sauna or public pool area. >> a gym. locker rooms. >> yes.on to food, pollen. could be a reaction to medication. interestingly, some people get hives from stress or being in a cold temperature. if you get hives you want to see an allergist to see what's triggering it. certainly if there is a sign of trouble breathing or having swelling in the face or throat, you need to go to the emergency room right away. >> last but not least, i hear bedbugs could be coming back. >> unfortunately they are predicting a resurgence. something about the winter being so cold and it's warm again, they are coming out of the woodwork. you have to be careful. make sure when you travel, inspect your luggage, the hotel rooms. if you have any suspicion, get a professional in to make sure the house is free of bedbugs. >> dr. raj, always great advice for us. thank you so much. >> thank you. >> still to come this morning in "today's kitchen" easy ways to make a summer meal. and highlights of our emotional morning as we said our farewells to meredith vieira. but first, the