becker had played for thomas, as had his father dave and two brothers including scott who started as he falcons last season. attending the same church, the thomases and beckers had been family friends for more than 30 years. what difficulty is there in accepting the way it happened? >> if i did not have faith, i have no idea how a person would accept this or get through this. it's not for me to know god's plan. i just have to trust an believe that a lot of good is going to come out of this terrible situation. >> the service was close to camera -- closed to cameras. but pastor brad zinnecker remembers the words spoken by his oldest son, aaron. >> he gets up and he gives this passionate charge. you can mourn today, but tomorrow you get to it -- you get to work, you get early, you stay late and you live your life with a passion and that's how you honor my dad. >> i think it's hard for people to argue with me if i'm his only son. >> outside the church, hundreds line the street to the cemetery to say their final good-byes. >> a bunch of the local football teams had shown up in their own je