and if you don't know scott dible, scott dible is the guy who proposed the reason that we have marriage in minnesota. and scott and his partner have been friends of mine for a really long time. and when they tried to get the constitutional amendment in the minnesota constitution to have marriage be between man and a woman or -- you know, whatever. so exhausting. i flew back to minnesota to do some door knocking on the issue. no, this is turning into a funny story. i'm super fantastic, by the way. and the give back that i do is epic. [ laughter ]. >> so bow to me, really. no. so i was going door to door and i was in a neighborhood that is one of those neighborhoods that is sort of -- it could go either way. sort of conservative white middle class and then there's some hipsteres and so you never know what you're going to get on any door that you knock on. so i knock on a door and this woman opens the door and she goes, oh, hey, come on in. and i'm like, okay. she goes, so why are you here? maybe you should have asked me before you let me in, but all right. [ laughter ]. and i said, i'm he