going to say, i'm a woman who has a mother in a nursing home right now, and the first words out of scott peck's road less traveled are, "life is difficult." and in his second paragraph, he's getting to the point that when we stop taking that personally, we'll all be ahead of the game; it'll never be as hard again. but he wrote another book called, a bed by the window , and this is about life in a nursing home - it's about the people who live there. and in my professional path now - i'm a speech and language pathologist in private practice and i have two nursing homes that i go to, one gentleman is in each one - i see a lot of suffering in those nursing homes, frankly, and i also see wall-to-wall courage and heart, and i love thinking about it from the point of view of scott peck's book, because it really - that book reminded me of something i become keenly aware of when i'm in these places is that life goes on in there, and people who work in - the b.a.'s, the people who run them, have no idea - no idea of the linkages between and among the people who live there, how they look out for each othe