the selina lo of then is not the selina lo of now. as a magazine writer put it, "lo has been reborn to be mild." after guiding her previous company, altion web systems into a sale worth $7.8 billion lo discovered many of her privaciees didn't want to work with her anymore, wouldn't follow her on new ventures. so changing her very personality, who she was at work, became job number one for selina lo. now as founder and ceo of ruckus wireless, a kinder, gentler lo leads a staff of a few hundred, expanding wi-fi, wireless prnt, heaping ease the network load off already taxed cell phone systems. asked once what she thought was the most overrated virtue you can find in a person, selina lo said patience. the british news site says her charisma hits you straight between in the eyes. joined by kym nicholas and ben parr of mashable, the "inc." article is a couple years old. did it sting or did you take it in stride? did you know that about yourself, you're silicon valley's most demanding boss? >> well, that's a big honor. i'm an expressive per