you are watching the trigger podcast with you , its hosts tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan.leadership in the family? you said that for you this is a habitual combination of relationships , what then do you suffer from, if this is habitual for you, that’s your mother, she tells you what to do, tells you what to wear, what to eat , where to lie down, how it will be, do you have problems with this or would you be ready to live like this if it weren’t for olga’s potential, which calls you to realization, which does not get high at this moment. what will you do - relatively speaking, waking up tomorrow morning and realizing that all the responsibility is on you, but i think, like all the previous days, then either all the responsibility is already on you and you’re great, then it’s not clear, you’re actively hiding it simply, why isn’t olya getting high, or, accordingly , you don’t plan to change anything somehow, you know, that’s why i’m asking, oh, i know when to drive the world crazy. well done, and how, i’ll say, you know, you ol, try, take yourself such a lunch for 3 days in

well, it was the triggers podcast, its hosts tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan were with you.let them not talk, let them read, we ’re talking about literature, we’re talking about books, we ’re talking about writers, but this year we are celebrating the anniversary of arkady petrovich gaidar, so we are talking today and... exactly about arkady gaidar, today we are talking with wonderful interlocutors, this is the head of the library of the moscow library, which bears the name of arkady gaidar, tatyana valerievna rudishina. hello, tatyana valerievna, and the head of the house of the gaidar museum in the city of klin, moscow region, natalya vladimirovna perlina. hello, natalya vladimirovna, and let’s start with this quick question, what is the most important thing for you in gaidar? you know, this is the first word that for some reason came to my mind, honesty, honesty, decency, loyalty to one’s business, understanding of the child. it seems to me that the most important thing for arkady petrovich is that he always remained a man, despite the fact that he had a lot of trials, in

you are watching the triggers podcast with you, its host tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan, weunded by love, care, kindness, i was surrounded by the same people who surrounded your mother with the same things, it turns out that so, that is, they obviously knew how to love, yes, but just... look, because she she just used it differently, she made a different choice, i’m afraid that today you cannot forgive yourself, including those feelings and emotions that you experienced when she deceived you, betrayed you, chose not you, and there there was a whole range of emotions, hatred, anger, resentment, but after all, you had the right to these feelings, i know that you had, and now you have? on the way here, i imagined this conversation several times, the thought in my head was that, well, she’s a mother, well, you can’t talk bad about her, why? i don’t know, that’s a lot, she just did a lot of bad things, of course, i don’t want to say, no matter how difficult it is to explain, probably, well, look, she did a lot of bad things, she doesn’t. how to accept yourself with these emotions

episode, with you presenter, psychologist, tatyana krasnovskaya. psychologist psychotherapist sergei nasebyan oh, i came, i’m very nervous, but how can i love myself? sorry. probably since childhood, i don’t know what self-love is, i don’t feel protected, elvira, tell me your story, i was raised by two wonderful grandmothers, when i was 3 years old, my mother was sent to prison, she came out of prison when i was. years, as a child i did not know that my mother was sitting in prison, and this was carefully hidden, and i grew up thinking that my mother, she is a wonderful, kind person, and where is she, as they explained to you, we didn’t say that my mother was in the hospital, we actually came to the colony and there they wore robes, that’s why it was all like this, such a theater, let’s say, here. she left prison when i was already 6 years old and graduating from kindergarten, she spent 2 years in freedom, during these 2 years she gave birth to my beautiful sister, and then from time to time she still ended up in prison, but when she came out, it seemed to me that she was mentally raping me,

the triggers podcast, with you is its host, psychologist tatyana krasnovskaya , psychotherapist sergei nasebyany, and it would seem that this is such the holiday is an expectation, and there must be some kind of miracle and something new, but at the same time, when you mention it, the first question, when they ask how you plan to celebrate the new year, something starts inside - something unpleasant happens, some kind of anxiety . and then every day it gets worse, because our traffic jams seem to be getting bigger, you can’t get out, and it feels like everyone is starting to go crazy and you can’t seem to get out of this, there are queues in stores, deliveries are delayed, it feels like something like this something important is bound to happen, anxiety increases, anxiety increases, and especially some results of the year need to be summed up, but he leaves. if you are on holidays or won’t leave, and you think that i don’t have to leave or don’t go there for the holidays, or on the contrary, you want to escape from this early, leave troubled moscow, but what about this year? the results of the

you its host tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologist, psychotherapist. psychologist psychotherapist sergei nasebyanu came with, i’ll start, you agreed that you will start, or i’ll start, this is a heavy burden, such a heavy burden that i keep starting, mm, yes, a difficult time, until recently it seemed to me that these were my... the feeling that he couldn’t even cope with this, oh, great, then we’ll leave this now, because our viewers don’t understand anything at all now, the feeling that he won’t cope, now they’ve put it aside, when will you forgive me, i’m right there, damir, you didn’t plan to say anything , that’s the thing, i planned it, that’s how it should have been expressed, because well, as a scam they asked the question, yes there should be. here is the fear of manifestation in just one phrase, what is it, well, somehow start first, be a leader, it’s more about responsibility, no, well, probably yes, okay, they also removed it in side. let's continue, let's continue, then let's ask you, uh-huh, what did you come with, what is your request? in our family now, it seems to us, there is a

when i love, this is the main core, you are watching the triggers podcast, with you its host sergey nasebyana. our guest is the beautiful elvira, who tells us a story about how difficult it is to love yourself as beautiful as you are now , sad, what to be sad about? well, about the fact that you probably gave up, well, you gave up once, now maybe it’s worth it, you know , in fact, if you gave up, you would stop biting yourself, because if, again, you ask, how, for example, love yourself how to accept yourself, well, this is where you have to give up, and you are always trying... remember this child and tell him that you love, that you will be there, that you will support, try to avoid the words i will protect, on the contrary, tell me that no one is attacking us, yes, this is very important, because if necessary, it will work out, you have experience, you have dealt with so many difficult stories in your life, you can handle any result. but there is no point in expecting him to defend himself in advance while sitting in a trench. your pain, in fact, i can just imagine what i really look like

you are watching the podcast triggers with you, its host tatyana krasnovskaya, sergey nasebyan, and today drive several thousand km, because it’s unbearable, and accordingly, tanya is a good second number, yeah. a motorcycle is like a very high responsibility, yes in the moment, yeah, but sometimes it happens to me that kostya, i leave with excitement, with the feeling that it’s great that we’re together, how great that we ’re going into all this, it’s great that we are here today and... i always say that healthy people don’t go into relationships, healthy people don’t need relationships, we usually build absolutely everything relationships due to your own neurosis, the key neurosis is, of course, the fear of loneliness. we can see our own reflection in the eyes of another person, this is a study, i wish you many years of this research and don’t think that it will ever end, as soon as you realize that you have known a person, you have lost a person, thank you, thank you , thank you for even changing your pose, great, that means everything worked out, because before that i was watching you