this is a podcast of triggers, and with you again today we are sergey nana and tatyana krasnovskaya, psychotherapist. hello and today in our studio marina tell us how you came to us. i had such a request literally. recently, i realized that i am not aware of my femininity, what is it. well, about the fact that i am a manager and i have such a more masculine character and how would my position me, as if obliging all the same to keep himself, and recently. i try to consider in myself a woman, only a woman that i will like, what should be there. and that's what literally recently, i hmm realized that i'm chasing, for some kind of some kind of pattern of this femininity, a generally accepted pattern. it must be some kind of vanilla femininity there, yes, there is a vanilla woman, there mimimi there, i don’t know, i hate it. i realized that this is not about me, but i'm chasing this, but it's not about me at all and well, here's just one little man literally there a few days ago , a girl told me, she says, i like your femininity so much. she is special for you, she is different for you, a