and psychotherapist sergei nasebyan, maria is our guest today.t to do anything change, everything is very convenient, the floor lamp and you are around in the twilight, why do you need children, why does your mother need children, it just doesn’t fit into this, neither children, nor husbands, nor men, no one fits in, you understand that you don’t you can build your life without upsetting your mother, but this is what’s eating me, are you ready? mom, are you ready to leave mom with her feelings and emotions? no, it seems to me that she will not survive this. mash, whether she will survive this or not, you will only find out if you do it; in general, everything should have been done much earlier, 15 years ago.

this is the triggers podcast with you, tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologist and psychotherapist, sergey nasebyanlo, tell us what you came up with today, with the existential transition, i feel it’s a good start, no longer a crisis, but at the transition, a year ago i was faced with the issue of death, with the topic. and i was immersed in my trauma, the loss of my mother, yeah, this year i realized that all these 10 years, while she was gone, well, i froze, i died with her, tell me a little about your story, well, i have a full family , mom is an economist, dad is a military pilot, well , probably an ordinary soviet childhood, well, a little bit with a cold... mother, who forbade him to show his creativity there, don’t paint, you litter, i don’t know, don’t dance, you stomp, you’re the only child in the family, yes, yes, i’m alone , and dad is on a flight, and naturally, dad flew in, dad is beloved, and grandma asked who you love more, mom or dad, yeah, and the answer was obvious, apparently, well , apparently, obviously, yes, dad. then, at the age of 12, my mother had an accident, my childhood

this is the podcast triggers with you, its host tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan are visiting the unknown, and what will happen if you ask, i can’t understand this, well, maybe i’ll offend her, so what? i’m very afraid of offending her, she’s very vulnerable, she might cry. what and what let's what are you really afraid of, what do you have is there a family of wax figures? if your mother looks, plus or minus, just like you, i can imagine what your evenings look like, you are sitting under a lampshade, preferably in the shade, so that god forbid you don’t fall into that bright spot on the table, because suddenly your mother will see that you have she’ll be offended by my manicure because she doesn’t have one, maybe i already understand. i already understood this, if i love some new thing, she may realize that she doesn’t have this thing, i guessed, how did i guess, what do you think, how did i guess, i’ve been trying for you for 20 minutes show one simple thing, that you don’t feel anything other than fear, it’s just that it has become so normal for you that being fearless, yo