are with you, its leading psychologist tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologist and psychotherapist sergei nasebyan today in leonid is our guest. hello, tell us what you came to us with? hello, i came to you with a request, a problem, i have. son, he is 7 years old, so the son doesn’t know that i live with another family, that i have two children, twins, he doesn’t know about your other family at all, he doesn’t know at all, yes, why, because i i’m afraid, well, to cause him psychological trauma, because i don’t live with him now, i love the child very much, so i’m trying to give him as much as possible everything that is possible on my part, the younger ones don’t understand anything yet, 2 s over the years, they are still growing, but in the future i understand. since all three of them will suffer maximum trauma, well, yes, it would probably be more accurate, because they must communicate, then you will do something like it’s customary in our family, so that relatives are sure to communicate, we all always spend a lot of time together there , so i don’t know what to do... should i introduce him n

was not there, you watch the triggers podcast with you. .. presenter tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyane talking about anorexia, our colleagues are watching us now, i know that many colleagues are watching us, they then write to me, so for the colleagues who are watching now and for you, as for a future colleague, i can say that in long-term psychotherapeutic work , a psychoanalytic, psychodynamic approach, i would consider another version, you try to be very compact, so that your mother takes everything from you, so as not to take up a lot of space, but you understand, this game is played that girl, not an adult woman, only when you become disidentified with the motives, desires of that girl who was afraid that she would be admitted to the clinic, she was admitted to the clinic, that her classmates would laugh at her, that her mother would not accept me like this, yes all these, well, in essence, you need to disidentify with her. you know your body, and this is an invaluable gift, and if you start with this, if in the end in your training you go a little deeper into a body-oriented app

podcast, its leading psychologist tatyana is with you krasnovskaya, psychologist psychotherapist sergei nasebyan hello, good evening. please tell us what you came to us with? you know, i have such a problem, i’ve probably had it since adolescence, from the age of 12 in adolescence i developed a disease called anorexia, later doctors diagnosed me with this, anorexia nervosa, and the disease either appears, then disappears, then there is, it does not depend on any pro... events in my life, that is, suddenly it is not there, suddenly it resumes again, it has some kind of periodicity no, so that it could be tracked, and i learned to cope with it as best i could, learned to live, but my question is, why did i have such an image formed in my head that i try to approach all the time, that is, this is a certain weight, a certain kind, in a different image, when i gain weight or... when i try, yes, if you can call it that, to live like ordinary people, with more or less acceptable nutrition, why don’t i like this image, why so i i look so, well, important that it affects my whole life, that is, i’m in a

podcast, with you its leading psychologist tatyana krosnovskaya, psychologist and psychotherapist sergei nasebyan, our guest nicole, hello! good evening, please tell us what you came to us with? you know, i have such a problem, i’ve probably had it since adolescence, from the age of 12 during adolescence i developed a disease called anorexia, later doctors diagnosed me with this, anorexia nervosa, and the disease sometimes appears and then disappears, that is, she doesn't depends on some... events happening in my life, that is, suddenly it’s gone, suddenly it resumes again, it doesn’t have any periodicity so that it can be tracked, and i learned to cope with it as best i could, learned to live , but here’s my question, why do i have this image formed in my head that i try to suit him all the time, that is, it’s a certain weight, a certain look, in a different image, when... i gain weight, or when i try, yes, if you can call it that, live like ordinary people, with food more or less acceptable, why don’t i like this image, why because i look so well, it’s important that it affects my whole life, t

are you watching the podcast triggers with you, its host tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan, we lostness now, and not give up on it, because this lostness will be very similar to the loneliness that you experienced then. but then it was completely unbearable, it is now not very much, but then it was downright unbearable, because all that is needed here is to understand her truth, to feel why, not not to justify, not to love her again, but simply to integrate this experience for yourself, as the experience through which you feel this loneliness and you feel when you talk about the white crow, we have an idea that this metaphor says that we are not just special, but we are lonely, because... the crow can be lame, there, i don’t know, with broken wing, whatever, but a white crow is a crow that is lonely, and if we experience this loneliness, that is, there is a high probability that we are in this loneliness. set of reasons, yes, under which we become these lonely people or feel like a black sheep, there is a huge number of some feelings, unexpressed, incapable of expression, becau

you watch the podcast triggers with you, its host tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan , leonid is about andrey? you say i wanted new children, i wanted more children, but he? he... i also wanted him to have brothers, to have brothers , to communicate with them, i understood that i would be with him, i would help him with him, but well, in fact, at that time , you probably said correctly, there wasn’t yet that kind of understanding, yes, that there are some investigative actions, well, that some depth may follow, that there may actually be a problem and that how this can... her reaction, as if, well, it may be unpleasant for her, but that’s her, how should she go to a psychologist, what’s your business, why did it even stop you, what did she say, absolutely not, i’ll lie down in front of the door and won’t allow this, and i also don’t want them to communicate, and with a very serious scandal, yes, well, that’s the point: the scandal was so serious that it traumatized you, and not andrei, including, yes, yes, andrei was four at that time, and somewhere around that, that’s why i say.

you are watching the triggers with you podcast, hosted by tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan.o have brothers, for him to have brothers, for him to communicate with them, i understood that i would be with him, i would help him, but in reality, moment, you probably said correctly, there hasn’t been such an understanding yet, but that there are some investigative actions, well, that some depth may follow, that there may actually be problems, and then, what how can this affect, including... it may be unpleasant, but it’s her, how could she go to a psychologist, what’s your business, why did she even stop you, what did she say, absolutely not, i’ll lie down in front of the door and i won’t allow this, yes i won’t allow it, i don’t want them to communicate, and with a very serious scandal, but that’s the point, the scandal was so serious that it traumatized you, and not andrei, including, yes, yes, that is, andrei was four at that time, yes, approximately, that’s why i i say that you know something about injuries. but how to say, somehow very, well, as it should, in general, superfi

april 1st, you are watching the triggers with you podcast. presenter tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyancolleagues are watching us now, i know that many colleagues are watching us, they then tell me they write, so for the colleagues who are now watching and for you, as a future colleague, i can say that in long-term psychotherapeutic work , a psychoanalytic, psychodynamic approach, i would consider another version, you try to be very compact so that you have everything. .. mom took it so as not to take up much space, but you understand, that girl, not an adult woman, plays this game only when you become disidentified. the motives, desires of that girl who was afraid that she would be admitted to the clinic, she was admitted to the clinic, that her classmates will laugh at her, that my mother doesn’t accept me like this, and all these, well, essentially, you need to disidentify with her, leaving her with all the problems that existed, everything that psychology, psychotherapy can do in this sense , it’s like finding a way for you to live all these elements that that child was missing so m

topic, and for.. goals of the podcast triggers with you were its hosts tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyanolder child, the information that he has half-brothers. find all lab podcast projects on the first website channel 1tv.ru. this is a must-read podcast, yaglaibatnikova, today we are discussing gustov flaubert and his novel “madame bavari with actress alexandra revenko and oksana bondarenko, director of the moscow transport museum. it’s great luck that today our guest is the director of the moscow transport museum, because in the novel "madame bavari" meets this moment of a beggar, which foreshadows her tragic ending, in general, we can say that in this novel transport plays a huge role, and oksana, as an expert in french culture, is great at this understands and will tell us today the whole sociocultural background of this novel. oksana, you are a francophone, you lived in paris for 13 years, you probably represent the sociocultural context better than all of us. this novel, please tell us why it made such a big impression, why it, so to speak, shook the moral foundations, why flaubert

you watched the triggers podcast, its hosts, tatyana krasnovskaya, and sergey nasebyan were with you,talked with leonid about how to integrate consciousness into life. the eldest child information that he has half-brothers. find all podcast lab projects on the website of the first channel 1tv.ru. hello, this is the schrödinger’s cat podcast, and i’m its host, gregory. chief editor popular science magazine schrödinger's cat. today we will talk about a very, very important topic: about russian swearing, but i want to warn you right away, we will not swear, so if children, anxious women or conservative people are listening or watching us, you don’t have to leave, listen calmly. just in case, the podcast editors have prepared many options for bleeping words. although we will not pronounce them, we will talk not about them, but about them, and for this we invited a wonderful guest, maria ravinskaya, linguist, member of the ran spelling commission, associate professor of the russian language department marhia, if i 'm not mistaken, a teacher at the higher school of economics in mythology, i

you are watching the triggers with you podcast , hosted by tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan.n from his first marriage that he has he has brothers and half-brothers. you said at the beginning that then you couldn’t imagine, for some reason you couldn’t, for some reason you couldn’t imagine this cause-and-effect relationship, that... this whole layer would rise, is that the point, is that your fault? yes, and also including the fact that i was with andrei, with my ex-wife, that at that moment i was somehow even, well, deepened by new relationships, yes, by my new plans, by building a new one. and i missed this moment, how it will be possible for them, how the child can react, because that’s only later then it came that yes, there really could be problems, it’s so interesting, you seem to be afraid of the consequences all the time, as if you are thinking that you cannot predict the consequences so it’s better not to do it, because there may be some open up some, you know, like a person, when he knows that he will go, he may be there, well... he walks through territory that is un

re to blame for her, you’re watching the triggers podcast, its hosts tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyanou could not assume, for some reason not, for some reason you could not assume this cause-and-effect relationship, that if you have relationship with violo, if you have other children, then as a result there will be difficulties with andrei, with his ex-wife, that this whole layer will be raised, this is the point, this is your fault, and also the fact that at that moment... i was somehow even deepened by new relationships, yes, by my new plans, by building a new family and missed this moment, how it will be possible for them, how the child can react, because it only came later that yes, there really could be problems, it’s interesting, you seem to be constantly afraid of the consequences, as if you are thinking about that you cannot predict the consequences, yes, there are no guarantees, then, you know, it is not the amount of time spent with the child that matters, but the quality. your child will not feel abandoned, and if you are in a relationship with him, well, precisely in those

the triggers podcast, we were with you, uh, psychologists, presenters, tatyana krasnovskaya, sergey nasebyanessness in this case. all episodes of the triggers podcast. you can find it on the website of the first channel 1tv.ru. you know, artyom, if you listen to this recommendation, you probably have some friends there who work in children’s departments and hospitals. you go, there is in the children's departments, in the very same children's departments, there is always a ward for refusals. just look at the children, as it were, who basically don’t know that they have parents, don’t know at all, maybe you’ll want to, well, they’ll probably give it to you. communicate, but you might want to, you can see a lot about yourself if you really it’s interesting to figure this out, then i strongly recommend having more sympathy for people, well, i’ll tell you that i have a lot of sympathy for you, can i calm you down, thank you, hello, this is the burn with fire podcast and i, its host denis gorelov with a story about the current serial news on the domestic television market. i want to warn you that

we love you, you are watching the triggers podcast, its host tatyana krasnovskaya is with you, sergey nasebyanage of 12 you said you were diagnosed with anorexia nervosa, yes, or anorexia nervosa, yes, yes, tell me how, what happened, here, what were you in at that moment when this started happening, i started going through puberty, and i was a little scared, or perhaps even a lot. but the fact is that my parents didn’t really explain to me what it is, what happens to girls in general, they didn’t teach you about the concept of the menstrual cycle , including, yeah, yeah, when i saw how my body was starting to change, yeah, i was scared , shocked, maybe, and i resisted it.

you are watching the triggers podcast, with you its hosts, tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan.ong with you artyom today, why don’t they communicate with you, i get the feeling that you’re like as if you never lived this experience, and as if you didn’t learn to live with it, what kind of experience, well, that now tatyana played out the pain for you, this is a betrayal, because it had to be integrated somehow, but you chose not to understand, and if you don’t integrate it, then you keep losing the same one all the time. the scenario, moreover, and i have an assumption, a fantasy such that you were unable to avoid that period of development - personality, when you know, we children become as harmful as possible, well , we’re just mischievous, because it’s like we all go through this stage, at what age is this? it’s different for everyone, but i think it’s somewhere from 9 to 14 years old, this is exactly the age when i was generally the most obedient. i listened to my mother in everything, if it was there at 8:00 at home, i’m at home at 8:00 pm, and then some kind of breakdown h

, with you is its leading psychologist tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologist and psychotherapist sergei nasebyan from others, and on the negative side, as you understand it, i don’t know the reason for this, but i see how everyone in the team communicates with me and i see how they communicate between ourselves, and these are radically different things, well, what’s the difference, how is it it manifests itself, well, for me, when i... they can answer me somehow sharply, although i and with me, if i can somehow joke there, i’m sure that if someone said the same joke or did that the same action from another, well, some other person, then they would react absolutely normally, they would even laugh and support it. it’s surprising that some people sometimes quarrel in a team, quarrel among themselves, then there’s just a click, they made peace, everything is fine , they work for years, if i have some kind of minimal problem, then it’s all right on the edge layoffs, yeah, how old are you now? 23, you have close friends, with someone, someone with whom you have a close relationship, yes, of course, bu

there, you are watching a podcast triggers are with you, his presenter tatyana krasnovskaya, sergey nasebyan another version, you try to be very compact so that your mother still takes you, so as not to take up a lot of space, but you... understand, in this game is played by that girl, not an adult woman, only when you disidentify with the motives and desires of that girl who was afraid that she would be admitted to the clinic, she was admitted to the clinic, that her classmates would laugh at her, that her mother would not accept me like this , yes there you go all these, well, in fact, you need to disidentify with her, leaving her with all the problems that existed, everything that psychology can do in this sense, it’s very interesting, if you are a little closer to your own emotions, well, for example , to the same hatred, because hating your mother is not equivalent to not loving her, this is a separate feeling from the love that you experience, but you have it, and if you learn to live it, let’s say, autonomously from the relationship with your mother, to truly experience this feeling,