he asked her if she wants to try anal sex and if he can perform oral sex on her. after the decoy agrees, she tells him she's home alone. and he asks to pend the night. he comes prepared. >> he's brought his overnight bag, looks like. >> i had to do laundry right away. i have something cute to wear tonight. did you try some of my sweet tea? sorry, i'm almost done. >> okay, babe. >> did you bring me anything? >> yes, i did. >> what did you bring me? >> i have a drink and some kit-kats. >> looks like you brought enough stuff to move in. why don't you have a seat there. and like some of the others, needafriendtotalkto appears to know what he's walked into. >> am i being taped? >> you are being taped. >> oh, crap. am i going to be arrested? >> that's not up to me. you admit right here that you could be in trouble if anybody found out that a 25-year-old -- >> yes. >> -- was with a 13-year-old? >> yes, sir. i thought it was a bad idea. >> if you thought it was such a bad idea, why did you do it anyway? >> i don't know, sir. >> you started talking and 45 minutes into the

his deviance had nothing to do with sex. it had to do with cheap law enforcement of an officer of the united states engaging in perjury and obstruction of justice. evidence of this is president clinton was the first president to lose his law license because of perjury and obstruction of justice. just a way of normalizing himself. >> guest: i would say that is not accurate. we are telling an important story. in the case of bill clinton, in which this national saga over sex captivated the public mind and distracted us from a serious threat to america, one of which was al qaeda. in the 9/11 commission report the commissioners flat out lay it out that the monocle with the scandal distracted the administration and kept us from doing what we should have been doing which was protecting the american public rather than focusing on a sex scandal. >> guest: you are never going to convince everyone. everyone will have a pros and cons leaders to why he was a great president or why he was a deviate. people are going to be arguing that in

>> oral sex. >> oral sex. anything else?think that was it, maybe a massage. >> did you send any photo toss this person? >> of my private parts. i'm digging myself a hole, aren't i? he insists that he would not have had sex with a 13-year-old. >> i [ expletive ] up my marriage. i [ expletive ] up my life. i don't deserve any of it. meaning my life, my wife. >> how long have you been married, michael? >> 13 years. >> and there are more married men about to show up at our hidden camera house. this is 43-year-old manuel uson. he's a plant supervisor for a large automaker. he's here after chatting online with a girl who told him she was 13. >> wow. this is your place? >> yeah. it's nice, huh? so look, i got the hot tub uncovered. >> wow. >> if you're wondering what he's doing in this strange backyard with a girl he's never met before, take a look at what he said online, using the screen name bendix632 he types “we're gonna take a shower, both of us." he tells the decoy, “you will give me oral sex” and using graphic language says

had sex with her? >> i would still have second thoughts. >> second thoughts? >> yes, sir. but -- yeah, i've seen the show about three times on tv. >> you've seen this show? >> yes, sir. >> you know exactly what's going on here? >> yeah. >> you know who i am? >> yes. >> you heard right. this man's aware of our previous investigations. >> you're on the "dateline" show. >> exactly. >> i know who you are. >> i'm chris hansen. >> there you go, yeah. >> did you think at all maybe you were walking into "to catch a predator"? >> that kind of crossed my mind for a minute. for a minute. then i wiped it away. >> you wiped it away. did you think it was a good show? >> yes. it was supposed to stop people and things like that. you know? >> this is the part i usually say i'm chris hansen with "dateline nbc." >> yeah, yeah. >> you remember that part? >> yes. >> you remember when these guys come out, the cameras come out. i say, if there's anything else you'd like to tell us, we'd like to hear it. >> no, that's it. >>

sex is natural. it an enormously powerful drive and a fundamental part of human procreation. >> reporter: what's remarkable about all the subjects of "virgin diaries" about how they all have normal sex drives but are doing just fine without it. their brains have overridden their bodies. kerry makes fudge to address his desires. and you know what they say about orgasmic chocolate. and the three roommates say their lives are not lacking in much. >> you know, i love to get out in nature and hike and being active. >> i don't think that you explode if you don't have sex. that's the thing. >> reporter: so, what does happen if you've never had it? you may not be as skilled or experienced a lover come the special day but you may also have saved yourself a world of heartache. then, there's this possibility at the end of the long wait. an undoubtedly odd, devouring kiss. but a lifetime commitment to work on the finer details. for "nightline," i'm stephanie sy in new york. >> and "the virgin dire r jigins sunda

he asks the girl if she wants to have sex and he seems to be well aware that sex with a 13-year-old is against the law. >> a lot of things are illegal. i have to keep myself out of jail, you know. >> but in the end, he says he wants the girl to perform oral sex on him and that he'll perform other sexual acts on her. >> what do you want to do? >> that's a very good question. what's in your drink? >> now he is inside the house. >> so this is your hot tub. >> yeah. >> this is the hot tub but i'd like you to sit right over there on that stool for me, please. that one right over there. why did you come here tonight? >> just to see her. >> just to see who? >> carlie. >> carlie. and how old is carlie? >> 13. >> 13. and how old are you? >> 23. >> you don't see a problem with that? >> i do see a problem. yeah. >> what is the problem you see? >> well, i just came to say hi to her. >> you just came to say hi. >> yeah. >> but in your conversation on the internet, you talked about more than just coming over to say hi. >> that wasn't my intention. as you see in the conversation. >> i have the con

officers catch five girls and three johns having sex. are six rooms with tables that don't have the normal accoutrements of a legitimate massage. >> you call this a massage establishment? >> the girls quickly throw on their white lab coats to hide skimpy attire. they wait nervously while officers inspect the premises. confused clients make quick exits or hide in the hallways. walsh says it's a game of cat and mouse where everyone understands that sex is for sale. he grills a girl he found half naked. >> do you have a massage diploma? >> no. first day, i go to chinese escort. >> okay, you need to -- do you want to work here? you have to go to a massage school. you cannot do massage without a permit. okay? >> you know that little employee lounge where i was sitting with all the girls? i stuck my head in there and she was putting on her shirt. the lady that was in -- claimed that she was there for an interview. and i asked the owner, is that normally how you interview them, without their clothes on? and she said no. >> the owners barely hid

just rough sex. "i would want you to resist and pretend you didn't want it and stuff." >> what kind of a guy has a screen name, can i rape you anally? >> it gets responses. >> do you think rape is fine? >> no. >> then why would you do? >> it's just something i like to put myself into that role and talk about. you know? >> warrecker also asks online if he could tie the girl down while they're having sex. and it gets scarier when he goes on to add, "i might want to cut you a little, suck on your blood, laugh out loud." >> a trait that i look for is, you know, they enjoy a little bit of pain here and there, you know. >> you've had girlfriends who enjoy a little bit of pain? >> yeah. >> well, how many times have you had a conversation like this and actually met somebody to fulfill this rape fantasy? >> never. >> never? >> no. i thought it would be cool to hang out -- >> you thought it would be cool to come over here after having a chat somewhat like this -- "so if i wanted to just bend you over and just

i was going to say did you like being a sex symbol but you've remained a sex symbol. i look at you now and you've looked as glamorous as you've ever looked. >> thank you very much. i don't think of myself as a sex symbol. it was fun. i like to work and i'm glad i went ton to make movies like "cloout" and "coming home" and "on golden pond." i'm glad i didn't get stuck in the barbarella mode. >> why wouldn't you be that keen to be a sex symbol? >> i'm 74 years old. i think it would be inappropriate. >> i don't mean now. when you look back to that period of your life, you don't seem that happy that you were this global sex figure if you'd like, the idol of millions of men. >> if you want it know, i wouldn't. it did not do well at the box office. it's become a cult film but it was not a big deal at the time and, you know, i came back and pretty soon after i did "they shoot horses don't they" so that window of time when one could have slotted me into sex symbol didn't really last because at heart i'm a serious actress who much preferred being in "they short horses doesn't

so in "sex, mom, & god," i chart that. i'm not going to go through everything in the book now because i hope you'll buy the book and read it. but believe me by the end of the deal have a personalized view, but also piece of american history told in a way that is personal and not the same time gives you insight into what really happened here and why for instance today's headlines about politics are all about these litmus tests of moral issues. i'll just give you one conclusion i drew in "sex, mom, & god" and then moved on to the third threat from what you see in the world to my mother's life in this book because she's an interesting case that proves the point. i fight forget what that is, say you're an essay she proved a point and then i remember. one of the things they talk about in "sex, mom, & god" is the result of all of our work if you want to do a big, wide project relies edge over 35 years now was corporate america, a group of city voters against their interests because corporate america really had a different agenda

she'll try anal sex and adds, it's better than regular sex. asks her if she has a jacuzzi. >> i'm going to [ bleep ] you. and on your mom's bed. >> why not my bed? >> that, too. i'm going to [ bleep ] you in every room so no matter where you go you'll remember me. >> next he asked her if she has any pets. cindy says she has a male cat. and you won't believe what crazytrini85 asks next. >> you know what would be a huge turn-on for me? >> what? >> he wants to watch her perform a sex act on a cat. he says people do it all the time. they discuss it further on the phone, where he tells her they'll need cool whip. the decoy says she'll try it if he's willing to strip off all his clothes and walk into her house naked. >> that's him right there. he's pulling in the driveway. >> as we told you before, according to law enforcement, asking a suspect to bring or do something specific demonstrates intent. >> there's like a green thing under the back door. >> the decoy keeps talking to him as he walks up the driveway. >> i'm going to find my cat. okay? just

>> i guess sex.

sex sells.zines and talking about a stigma, i think it is -- people just love talking about it and love wondering. there has to be other emotional issues tied in whether it is sex addiction or other things. maybe that's the object of the addiction. >> that was it. she was in a shadow. she had the addiction. michael, you are giggling here. >> yes, schoolgirl. >> isn't sex addiction about options? the more options you have for sex, the more likely you will have sex? so a professional nba basketball player will have sex with a thousand women in a year. does that make him a sex addict or an nba basketball player? >> totally. that's always the thing. like tiger woods or whatever, you never meet homeless dudes. it is rich people who are hot. i am totally addicted and cheating on wives and stuff. to the serious point, i will give a plug to my former employer, reason magazine. i think it was the most successful blog post ever. it was all of the addictions, scares, say tanism cover stories. >> i remember

kept as a sex slave in an underground dungeon? now they're about to learn how horribly real her story really was. here again, rob stafford. >> thursday night is cheap beer and karaoke night at freddy's bar and grill on the north side of syracuse. on april 3rd, 2003, the usual crowd who come to see the aretha, elvis wannabes, saw something unusual. on three separate occasions, when a young african-american girl stood up to sing, an elderly white man got up and stood right next to her on the stage. cindy orman was the emcee. >> at the time i thought he was just trying to perhaps encourage her. >> later, when the girl went to the ladies' room, some noticed the older white man waited outside the door. odd, but not alarming, the kind of thing that only seemed significant later on. >> he was with her wherever she went. he never left her side. >> puts up the shot. it's too long and syracuse is your national champion. >> a few days after the karaoke night, the syracuse area celebrated the end of college basketball's march madness with a n

, vaginal sex and oral sex. >> no, no, no, no, no, no, no. i never said anything about having vaginal sex. >> yes, you did. >> well, let me put it this way. whatever, i mean, you know how it is online. you talk to people you don't know who you're talking to and it's just -- i mean for -- >> he was in control of his life, up until that very moment and he couldn't control the fact that he was going to be on television, and he couldn't control the fact that he was going to be arrested. and that, i think, freaked him out. >> what did you think was going to happen? >> i thought she was going to ask me to take her for a ride to get a burger, i would have talked to her a little bit. >> please. nobody's going to be home. nobody's going to see us. your brother's going to be gone, your parents are going to be gone. i just told you that i just read this, all right? >> i know, but that doesn't mean i would actually do it. there's so much fantasy online. >> you should have kept the fantasy at your house. that wouldn't have been an issue. >> i know. >> onc

>> i didn't come over to have sex. here to get the girl and go to the party, dude. >> we learn his sister apparently didn't know he was trying to meet an underage girl. later you'll find out what happens when i tell him i'm with "dateline." >> nothing funny going on right here. >> there are more potential predators to confront. as you can see, the palm tree cam picks up another man headed our way. this time he's riding a motorcycle. >> he's parking right by the door. >> instead of coming in right away, he stays outside and smokes a cigarette. our actress tries to get him to come inside. >> call him. he's getting nervous. >> hey, come on in. >> all right. he just put a cigarette in the trash. he's heading towards the door. >> he's 45-year-old dennis ramsey, a truck driver whose screen name is daddieforu. he drove 4 hours to meet a girl who told him she was 14, at home and willing to have sex with him. he says, i just met you and i like you. the world says it's wrong because i'm older than you. then later under a differe

i wasn't going to do nothing. >> yeah, but what's in here is sex act after sex act after sex act. talk of sex with multiple people. talk of stuff that's way out there. it's a dog -- >> it was just talk. that was all. people do it all of the time. >> but there's a difference between doing it online and showing up to the house. >> i know what you guys are doing. i see it all of the time. and i think it's fair what you guys are doing. i really do. and, i mean, i would do anything -- i would do anything to help you guys out. >> this was only our second investigation. so when joe says i like what you guys are doing, i believe in it, i want to help. i'm thinking he believes we're the police. so my impression was that he was offering to cooperate in another police investigation. e he would help us in anyway he could to catch other predators if we cut him some slack or let him off the hook. >> i was wrong for doing it. i would do anything to help you guys out. >> but what should happen? >> honestly, i'd like to be able to given the chance to help you guys out anyway i can. >> what can you

they talk about oral sex. they talk about intercourse. they talk about all of the things they're going to do together and how he would teach her. and he says "i just chat about it. i just talk about it online. it's fantasy." but it ceased to be fantasy when he walked into her house. >> now, who are you here to see? >> i don't even know. and you know what? i'm going to ask you something. am i under arrest? >> you're not right now, no. but i need to ask you some more questions first. now, you were here -- no, no, no. i want you to sit down, please. >> i need to go. can i go? >> i want to talk to you a little bit more, first. please just sit down. would you like some water? >> no. i'm about to puke. >> i'm just -- you were talking to a girl named beth. >> yeah, i think so. i don't know. you know what? i don't know. >> what did her profile say? >> her profile said i'm in trouble. >> the profile said she was how old? >> she said 12 or 13. >> 12 or 13. so you know you were coming here for a 12 or 13-year-old girl? >> i'm totally screwed. i know

>> no. >> did you know about sex? >> no. i didn't even know the difference then between boy and girl because i only have sisters. when i first told my grandmother that my mother's friends was touching me, oh, you just saying that because you don't want your mother with nobody but your dad. if the men is touching me, he's touching me. so after i told her and she didn't believe me, i just wouldn't say nothing to nobody. >> with no family to turn to, young tina was forced to grow up fast and hard on the streets of detroit. turned out by the age of 13, she would be brutalized by one pimp after another. and every time she tried to get out of the life, there was always hell to pay. >> you'll get burned. you done get your nails pulled out with pliers. i have been stabbed here in my chest. i have a screwdriver stabbed in my face from my first kid's father because i said that i wasn't going out to work. i've been stabbed in my shoulder. i was burnt on my back with an iron because i said i wasn't going to be no prostitute. >> so when

i tell the story been "sex, mom & god" for two reasons. she is in a shadow of my father's someone who i talk about a lot more it crazy for bide levy a huge chunk of my story untold of 80 to read me the bedtime stories swear words and all in the '60s when evangelicals there were no progress since they thought that was a trade but nobody laughed at that. that is a shame. [laughter] but in any case, my mother was so luminous in her embrace of art and literature and people and individuals with evangelicals would call it sarah palin it is not real america those who go to schools like harvard a real or serve princeton reit says they have a higher learning and anti-knowledge my mother was out like that for i grew up hearing great books read. and i just the woodhouse or the of literature of dickens and abroad taye sisters but to a brave new world record 1984. animal farm. i remember about that age are remember sitting on the beach and mob reading as the lourdes of the flyspeck of this is your idea how you raise kids and it just sends me because sh

men and women both have to take responsibility. >> i have not had sex yet, but when i have sex, i will use a condom. >> it is evening, antic empower's work is far from over. the female and transsexual prostitutes and the tourists seemed glad to get the free condoms. it tonight, the women distributed 13,000 of them. >> we are proud of our work and we plan to continue it in the future so prostitutes can protect themselves from aids and other diseases, so they can live longer and not die from them. >> thailand has practically no state run education or health programs for sex workers because officially prostitution is illegal. that makes the work of organizations like empower all the more important. that aids, putting prevention first. that has been the health care report for today. thank you for watching, and thank you for the company, everybody. captioned by the national captioning institute --www.ncicap.org--

the issue of same-sex marriage. the new push for the governor and support, opponents also gearing up in the fight. corinne has more. >> reporter: supporters of same-sex marriage believe 2012 is their year for victory once the legislative session gets underway but a united effort from a number of religious leaders from different states are trying to defeat same-sex marriage in maryland. the religious leaders from all backgrounds joined together during a press conference from baltimore calling themselves the maryland marriage alliance. they held up signs that read "the bible is right" during the meeting. same-sex marriage was narrowly defeated in the 2011 legislative session. for the first time governor martin o'malley will sponsor the same-sex marriage bill. there's even a series of videos produced by quality maryland aimed at gathering support to change the maryland law and allow same-sex marriage. >> we want to be married for the same reasons everyone wants to be married. we would like to make a family and be prote

abuse and now he is facing 12 sex abuse charges. the 9th and 10th accusers said they met him in the second-mile charity. this teen said that the contact started at 11 or 12 years old with hugging and rubbing and cuddling and tickling and that led to assaults and rape. he said many of these occurred at the basement bedroom in the home and one time he screamed for help because he knew that the wife was up stairs, but no one came to help. sandusky was arraigned yesterday in pennsylvania and people in court said his eyes were wide and he was quiet as the new charges were laid out. his attorney said he was upset he was arrested at home and he is facing 50 charges for assaults that happen over 15 years and if convicted, he could serve 20 years in prison. that scandal led to the dismissal of joe paterno and the school's president. >>> more on that former basketball coach accused of child molestation. charles fitzpatrick said that they spoke with the unanimous e about the home life and she said that her husband suspected her husband. >> she

not only sex but unprotected sex. we reached out to the boy's lawyers and asked them for response.n the e-mail to us he said, and i quote, if anything the lawyers and the spokesperson for the school are a direct threat to me by insulting my intelligence as though i do not understand or know the consequences of having unprotected sex. who wants to have sex anyway at my age? that's not what i'm focussed on. what kind of boarding school are they running that the kids there are that sexually active with all the staff members there 24 hours a day? also this fact, nothing hypothetical about it. this 13-year-old taking drugs to keep the virus in check. drugs that reduce the risk of sexual transmission by more than 95%, even if the sex is unprotected. about here's dr. kimberly manning of emory university medical center. >> this was a decision that was rooted in fear not because of public health concern because if this was truly for public health purposes, they would have sought the counsel of the appropriate medical professionals who would have then told them of the compelling data that is

for the sole purpose of sex. >> with strong suspicions of sex trafficking, detective lee must move quickly and gather further intelligence before taking the case to his boss. >> it's my understanding this gentleman here is the guy that's currently renting it. >> he's hopeful they have informs about who's operating the brothel. >> he's a male. we're quite happy with that. have you met him at all? >> no, not personally. >> any correspondence is over the phone or written? >> yeah. >> is he paying by cash or is it standing? >> he paid cash six months up front. >> how much would that have been? >> it was 4,825 pounds. >> that's in cash? >> yes. >> is that usual? >> it's not the norm. >> okay. so the suggestion is that he's got a bit of money. >> yeah. a lot of money. >> the records show that the apartment is being rented to a man named shuyu wang. detective lee checks him out in the national police data base. >> the man who's currently renting the address, we know from our previous intelligence systems has rented a brothel, was enforced during the summer last year. >> we wouldn't build up if we

who wants to have sex anyway at my age? he wants the school to stop making out like i'm this vermin that's out to get the student body at milton hershey. we'll talk to his attorney. first, to what is to many is a staggering fact. this is happening a quarter century after another young man ryan white fought to stay in school despite being hiv positive. through his battle many learned to leave their unfounded fear of hiv behind, but apparently not everyone. i talked about it earlier tonight with ryan white's mom. what went through your mind when you first heard about this 13-year-old honors student in pennsylvania being denied admission because he was hiv positive? >> oh, gosh. anderson, i just felt like, you know, it was ryan's story all over again. i mean, it just seems -- i didn't know the whole story at the time. i just thought people were uneducated. i did not understand the part about the sex. i mean, their response for not allowing him in school was because they're afraid that he might have sex. i mean, i think that's

both sides are gearing up in the fight over same-sex marriage. >> and there's no way you can keep up with who the parties, to fight for and went to get the cookies out of the oven. and we have been asked to care the madness. >> in november and another gusty note, baltimore's most accurate forecast coming up on news at 11 which starts right now. >> and the forces pushing for same-sex marriage are getting ready for their first big battle. the legislative session that opens six weeks from tonight. and i were working for both sides today? >> we did. and, legislative from different states trying to defeat same- sex marriage but supporters believe in 2012 will be their year. >> pulled in the same that the bible is right along with the koran and torah, leaders from many states joined together calling themselves the marriage alignment god created one man and one woman as surely as he created the very universe in which we live. >> same-sex marriage was narrowly defeated. >> marriage touches every aspect of our aides and every aspect of our society. >> unlike previous years, and 2012 governor

(laughter) wow. 13 years, no sex. so either one of these two people is lying or herman cain is the worst deal closer in the history of extramarital affairs. (cheers and applause) it almost makes you feel sorry for the guy. >> no, wolf, no sex. 13 years, lot of hotel rooms, lot of gifts. (laughter) never sealed the deal. just... (laughter). a lot of hello, this is mr. cain in room 1102, gonna need a cot. (laughter) again. but cain wasn't willing to say that this was the last time he'd be accused of something. >> do you expect other women to be coming out and making similar kind of accusations? is there any evidence... none. >> is there any indication there are others out there. >> none that i know of! do i know of any that might come out? not off the top of my head. (laughter) >> this is where wolf blitzer should interrupt and say "we're a 24-hour network. take your time, dig a little deeper than the top of your he head. maybe try the middle of your head where your brain is, the thing that storms the names of the ladie

had we not been of the same sex, we would have not had any problems.after receiving help from senator feinstein, i led the drive to introduced private bill 867. when my advocacy became public, scores of bi-national couples began contacting me for help. not a day goes1/ request. i testified before the california state assembly, judiciary committee, and provided written testimony to senator leahy for the uniting of american families act. the irc, in making their recommendations to the mayor and board of a supervisors, to improve and enhance the quality of life into the participation of all the grim immigrants in the city and county of san francisco must include the plight of same-sex couples and by-national relationships. at the four of any immigration reform discussion, particularly for this city, the current immigration law fails so many immigrants and families. yes, same-sex relationships stand on prejudicial ground when compared to their heterosexual counterparts. without specific language such as that in the united families act which seeks to have p

about the idea of same sex couples paying more in taxs that. leave your comments, facebook fan page. join the conversation. >>> lawmakers are a lot wealthier than most of us. according to the ww post , the gap between americans and the representatives in congress is wide ening considerably. the post reports between 1984 and 2009, media net wort of a member of the house went to $725,000 a year. >>> alaska fair bank protesters are in a standoff with government to maintain right through free speech. occupiers will continue the protests regardless of insist i camping. temperatures will rise above 0 in fair banks this week. they are committed to their cause. it is 14 degrees below zero in fair banks, alaska, that is amazing. >>> many people turn to stratfor for information about security threats. now, some subscribers are facing a threat thanks to a hacker. kelly has the story. >> reporter: personal information of thousands of credit card users compromised after anonymous struck global security firm, stratfor, last weekend. allen is a stratfor subsc