3-time oscar nominee known for iconic roles in classic films like "urban cowboy" and of course "shadowlandshe's back now. the snoir her new movie is a scene from "lovers" starring debra winger and tracey lentz. >> i thought you were at home. where are you? >> where am i? uh, i had to work late too. i just stepped out for a bite as we well, actually. the chinese restaurant. what about you? what are you eating? >> i'm getting chinese too, funny enough. i like the duck. you should order the duck too. >> so did you try the duck? >> you know, i always -- i always try the duck, it's part of my problem. >> yeah. okay. >> we'll leave it at that. >> yeah. >> you have fun doing this? >> i had a blast doing this, yeah. >> i ask that in part because much to your credit, because i can list a lunch of other foal being who should take your lead and be more de serving about the roles ta they choose, but you seem to be very methodical about -- >> methodical i wouldn't hif don't feel methodical inside but i am selective. >> very selective. >> methodical i would denote that i had a plan and. >> okay. >> yeah

might not necessarily know, your biggest hits, officer & and a gentleman, terms of endearment, shadowlandsephen: i have visual aids, baby. i have got visual aids. >> well, you know, i'm stoaked to be following charles barkley because now nothing i say will be a problem. i mean-- cuz you know, my kids were watching. i thought oh, they're going to like him more than he me. but then he just dissed their whole generation, so. >> stephen: that's true. how old are your kids. >> i have one in college. >> stephen: good. >> and then the other two are, you know, ten years older. >> stephen: okay. >> yeah, there was a pause. i do that in pie life, evidently. >> stephen: so you were an industry darling for ten years and sort of walked away from big hollywood. why did you do that? >> i know that it's a thing. and i'm trying to figure out an answer to it but i didn't feel like i was walking away, i just was following my life and it wasn't there in hollywood. >> stephen: where did it end up being sph. >> it was, you know, i have a family. i have three pretty good dudes that i hung out with for awhile. i