the only person she knew was shane warned. —— warne.tually quite nice to talk to somebody who had no idea. what are her qualities that have brought you back from the bank? you know, she listened. her empathy. her understanding. but mainlyjust, as a friend, she knew that i was a good guy in a very bad place and she lived on christmas island, she was one of those who, when the boat people came in, she was there to help the refugees, so she just had a lot of empathy and she could see that i was a decent guy too. probably the only one at the time. a couple more points. the first is this incident which occurs several months, i'm a bit confused with the time, you are back in the same hotel, on the balcony, you had contemplated ending your life and suddenly... geez, i mean, rob, you mention it and to try and relive that, i try and remain strong but having walked along the beach, i visualised exactly what i was going to do and how i was going to end my life. and then three years later, when i was clean, wasn't drinking, and i was approached by