i have a goddaughter i adore, shany. she's been my precious goddaughter. i love her to pieces.'re not going to give a gift. have a conversation with the mom and say, here is the deal. why don't we stop giving gifts to each other's children. >> i'm godmother to the youngest jenner girls. they are richer than methusala. chris, i'm telling you now, it's silly. i'll make a donation in their name to cassidy's place or cody house, something like that. i think i isolated why it bugs me. most of the people i give gifts to have too much. you live in our world with the needs of people. i think it's a much better thing to do. if you're blessed and privileged, cut a check or do something nice for somebody that doesn't have a thing and do it in honor of the person. i sound so goody two-shoes, but enough stuff. >> if you can't afford or buy for someone else's kids sometimes they draw names. >> those are great. my friend christine, she has a very large irish catholic family. kriss kringle, when you pull the name out or santa's secret. all about baby jesus. >> i heard that story. okay. if you