. >> sharon hayes is an expert on families and expert on government policy. >> would anne care to sharejoys or struggle from marriage. >> she worries about federal money going to religious groups that might criticize gay couples or couples who choose not the marry. >> if marriage is aenerally good thing for society, it is a good thing for the people to be married why shouldn't the government be involved in that? >> it is implicitly saying there is one correct road, and it is the marriage pathway. ultimately, when i look at the materials on the marriage promotion efforts, i worry about an underwritten agenda here and it is not a story about ending poverty, but a story about morali morali, and iishe moral tng to do is to be married and unmarried people are morally incorrect, and that is why it is dangerous for the government to be in the education of marriage program. >> if people want to get married, we want them to be successful. but if people don't want to get married, we don't want them to get married, because if you don't want to be married you're not going to stay married. >> it is