look at "time" magazine where sheryl samberg is on the cover. , "don't hate her because she's successful." facebook sheryl sandberg and her mission to reboot feminism. don't hate her. >> and ruth marcus, isn't it interesting how the word that's greeted her is the word "hate." don't hate her. >> right. as we were saying don't hate -- nobody would ever say about a man don't hate him because he's successful. look. nature loves a good cat fight, and she is attractive. she is smart, she is young, she's impossibly rich and impossibly successful. what's not to get the claws out. and i blame actually for a change us women, because she said something provocative. she said something worth debating, but why is it that we need to debate it by sort of acting as if we passed around a note in junior high school saying, hey, everybody, let's be mean to sheryl today. >> why is the instinct, congresswoman, for women to be resentful of this sort of advice? is it a sense that it's incomplete? she doesn't get it? she comes from, you know, different circumstances? wha

sheryl samberg has two degrees from harvard, a high position and runs google. >> her new book lean innd criticism. i spoke with sandberg for this sunday's "60 minutes." >> women attribute their success to working hard luck and help from other people. men will attribute that whatever success they have, that same success, to their own core skills. >> what do you attribute your success to? >> i think my success is attributed to a lot of things some of which is luck help from others. >> and your core skills. >> and core skills. >> but sheryl you're one of the most powerful women in the world and you still can't attribute your own core skills. >> no i can more. >> reporter: it's that mindset that led sheryl to reach the conclusion that's at the heart of her book. it's not just men who bold back but women do it to themselves. tay play too safe at work, worry too much about being liked and turn down opportunities of having a family one day. >> they start leaning back, they say, oh i'm busy i want to have a child i couldn't take on anymore. >> you're suggesting women aren't ambitious. >> i'm