and so we, you know, a lot of the shimmer and shine has faded and we're just living every damn day aseach other through a lot. you know, like he used to work as a full blown garbage man, and -- [ light laughter ] not a joke, just a garbage man. [ laughter ] and i used to sweep up hair in a barber shop. i mean, we've like, been through it. >> seth: yeah. >> and so yeah -- so one night i like came home from pitch at "snl." >> seth: yeah, monday, snl pitch, yeah. >> have you ever we heard of it? [ light laughter ] but, so yeah, i pitched to lin-manuel miranda, and then when i got home, i had like my purse, and our mail, and all these boxes, and i walked in the door. and our dog had a bow tie on, and i was like, my dog doesn't wear a bow tie. [ laughter ] where is he going tonight? [ laughter ] and then, basically the second i shut the door, a man who i discovered was conner, frantically came around the corner and was just like, "will you marry me?" [ laughter and applause ] and no box, no i love you, no fance, just a man in full terror, standing very far from a dog in a bow tie -- [ laug