softa. my daughter and i were arguing about that. she said, she can't say softa.s. >> was softa her first word? >> no, momma and dadda and then softa. >> what does that mean? >> grandmother in hebrew. isn't it pretty? >> it is. >> so, this is -- i was reading you said this is a constructive reality show. >> yes. >> what do you mean by constructive? >> well, we went into the show with a purpose, meaning that we wanted to build a stronger bond. we always had a strong bond but i thought that -- well, it's a way to get my granddaughter and my daughter and the son i never had, you know, in my house and around me, which i always love. but also a chance for us to talk about things that we never get a chance to speak about. i know i have questions about -- you know, my mother. they never tell you what was going on. did you and dad ever fight? did you ever separate? i thought it was a great opportunity, because she was a mother, she was expecting mother then, that it would show her some things about herself. i'm always in this self-discovery mode and program and process. >

>> no, mamma and daddy and then softa. >> softa means grandmother in hebr hebr hebrew. >> so this is. >> yes. >> what do you mean by constructive? >> we went into the show with a purpose, meaning that we wanted to build a stronger bond. we always had a strong bond. but i thought that -- well, it's a way to get my granddaughter and my daughter and the son i never had in my house and around me, which i always loved. but also it was a chance for us to talk about things that we never get a chance to speak about. and i know i have questions with my mother and they never really tell you what was going on, did you and dad ever have a fight? i thought it was a great opportunity because he was an expectant mother then, it would show her some things about herself. i'm always in this self-discovery mode and process -- >> aren't we all? >> yes. >> it clearly show that is you and your daughter had some issues between the two of you. >> yes. >> and then you're putting it all out there for us to see. >> yes. >> i look at that and go, gosh, i don't know how people can expose themselves that is way.