st. theophan the recluse discussed this topic, he said that it is advisable not to put off spiritual workome. drink , this especially concerns the topic of communion, seriously ill or dying people, the hardest thing is when you empathize, well, grief, here - it’s very difficult to always say, yes, because well, in itself, this is a situation of grief, this is human misfortune, yes it , well, sometimes it can be much more eloquent in response to the priest’s silence, well, it’s clear that... people with the loss of a loved one, when it’s the loss of a child or the loss of a husband, or a person, who, well, at a very young age... so he left us, here, of course , it can be very difficult to find words, but baptism is much simpler in this regard, that is, it is always joy and triumph, a wedding too, that is, people on their own they are already in the mood for joy and you just come into contact with them, join this mood, participate in this, of course it’s easier here, because the occasion is so joyful, such a cheerful event, well, life-affirming. so, of course, receiving the holy sacraments