evybody makes mistakes in their relationship. >> stas stacey morrison, good morning. >> hi. >> as editor in chief of the magazine, your job is to oversee articles about marriage. >> yes. >> how to keep your marriage ppy, safe and healthy. was the irony lost on you? >> absolutely not. it was actually quite shocking, because he told me he wanted to end our marriage about 3 1/2 weeks before i got the job and i just remember being like, do i even get to do this job? do i have to tell someone my husband and i are struggling? there were so many moments in those years when i was on the "today" show giving advice about marriage, good advice about marriage and i just had to live through that. it was interesting. >> what's interesting, you say yowere blind sided at that moment when he said i'm done it basically went from color -- your world went from color to black and white. were there no clues along the way that he was unhappy in the marriage that you missed? >> right. one of the reasons i wrote the book is because i was quite stunned by what comes back at you when you are go