. >> what is the stair oe >> it is a stereotype. >> what is the stair reostereot?think the stereotype that is out there in the mass media and is actually very internalized amongst our own cultures is that asian-american women are just born naturally skinny. that we apparently have a skinny gene. we are petite and this is how we are supposed to look. and it's very damaging for people who don't fit, you know, within that mold because they start to really question themselves about whether or not they are really a part of this community and whether or not they are, quote unquote, asian enough. so, you know, and i think self confidence, self-esteem, everything just kind of rolls from that. >> well, you're a big resource, so how -- what's your advice for women and for men? >> well, i think as we see more and more of these stories, lynn and i always come back to this idea of how do we get people to think about, first of all, mental health, because i think image issues and eating disorders is really a manifestation of your mental state. so how do we of promote wellness and