diagnoses in some of the mental health books about trends identity since the 70s, 1973 if i remember right. the big book of mental health disorders called diagnostic and statistical manual, that is what therapists use to diagnose people and say you have depression, anxiety, whatever. there have been diagnoses in that book since then. if there is a diagnosis in the book of mental illness, how do you say trans is not a mental illness? people use that as an argument. there has been pushed back about that ever since certainly the 90s, get use to it which i think of as we are here, trans and gender queer, get used to it. there has been pushed back about that for a long time. now it is still in the dsm but listed as gender dysphoria meaning discomfort with your gender, not gender identity disorder. even just that changing of the language changes how people can change that. i have known people who came to me or my peers, they are ready to transition. they don't need three months, six months a year of therapy, they know who they are. that is the history behind that myth. when somebody says to you you think you are trans, we got to get you a therapist and figure this out. not ne