. >> in stephen coates, you've got a guy who has a good job, successful executive.poses his own music. he's made his own cd. he's got his own website. he has a life, a wife, a son. it's never ceases to amaze me in how one part of a guy's life it can be so totally normal, successful, and yet they have this secret dark side where they're trolling internet chat rooms for dates with teenagers. and what are you doing here, stephen? >> i was doing something that i shouldn't be. >> and what is that? why don't you tell me? >> sir, i just want to go, okay, please? >> what are you doing here trying to meet a girl who told you she was 13 years old, stephen? >> i never done such a thing and i didn't want to do it. >> why did you do it, then? >> because i -- i'm stupid. >> how old are you? >> i'm stupid. >> how old are you? >> i'm thoroughly, completely stupid. >> how old are you? >> 56. and i'm stupid. and i've never done such a thing. god, please, please, just go. >> you can tell his first instinct was turn and go. then he thought better of it. we had a chat for a short while.