steve demock ever. >> they were crazy for each other. >> sharon democker is steve's sister. >> carol was really easy to love. she was kind of a natural fit in the family. she was just immediately a sister to all of us. >> narrator: all of us being the democker family, high achievers, all of them. sharon is a doctor. >> it's an accomplished bunch. as one of my friends said, there's not a weak link in this group. >> narrator: carol and steve got married in her parents backyard in rochester, new york. >> steve was the one that started the adventuring side of things. first there was skiing and hiking and kayaking. >> they moved around as people do, and wound up in prescott, which seems to be the perfect place to raise their daughters, katie and charlotte. >> it's a testimony to the kind of people that steve and carol with were, that the girls were their first priority. >> steve became the dean of students, carol taught psychology there. steve decided to change careers, left the academic life. >> nobody knows all that what goes on inside a marriage. but i did talk with both of them about i