. >> steve smith there.hina has bounced back from the economic mess left by chairman mao to become the superpower in waiting for the 21st century. but behind the wealth being created by the world's fastest growing economy, there remain profound social strains. because more female fetuses have been and continue to be aborted than male ones, there's a serious imbalance between the number of marriageable men and women in china. justin tries his hand at match making. ♪ >> meet chen. and meet yang. news night is playing cupid in china. >> and now i'm going to leave you to your date. >> why? because although there are hundreds of millions of young people to choose from in china's booming cities, many chinese say it's not easy to find someone they want to marry. so how hard is it to find a good husband? what'd she say? difficult, why? is it so easy to find a boyfriend, why is it so hard to find a husband? >> love is between two people but marriage is between two families. >> girls are very picky. they only choose t

discovery that knocked me for a loop was reading the histories in the jfk library and come across steve smith oral history i blame myself sometimes because i was always and haven't when i was around a senator to walk in front of him not for security but to get him through faster and had he been retainer we would have he would have been in front of robert kennedy rather than going into the kitchen unprotected. that is all that passed change for him to have survived in this story. then you think what then? you do not need to speculate. look at history. remember ronald reagan survived john hinckley and responded with humor i hope you doctors are all republican and honey i forgot to duck you had to wheel the enormous sense of relief that we were scared another one. kennedy himself had a sense of humor and response was grace and humor and the whole dynamic of the primary changes. i do think if not hubert humphrey would have won the big state politicians america meant it is it shakes things louis and if you imagine as one history suggests mayor richard daley was prepared to endorse bobby he thought

kennedy library and cable across steve smith's oral history where i blame myself sometimes because i was always in the habit when i was around the senator of walking in front of him, not for security but to get him through faster. had he been where he normally would have been he would have been in front of robert kennedy rather than robert kennedy going into the kitchen and protected. that is all that has to change for him to survive in this story. so you don't need to speculate in a way. you look at history. you remember what happened when ronald reagan survived john hinckley and survive with humor. i hope you adopt this role in public and i don't care what your politics where you had to hear an enormous sense of relief for him and the country that we were scared another one. robert kennedy had a sense of humor and he responds to this with humor and the dynamic of that primary changes. had there been nothing like that hubert humphrey would have won and my argument is that shakes things loose. if you imagine, as one history of that campaign that mayor richard daley was prepared to en

steve smith of the head of the teachers union was on the collaboration track and revolves around how do evaluate teachers? the union says i did not hire these people. they don't speak english i have to defend them. i don't think you'll find a certain school seven are not performing well but not -- some that are. where would you move? but there is no i italian food down there. [laughter] and a standard you are going through. i know it well. my grand kids go to public schools. we're very satisfied with that. >> i came back to providence about the time you started your second administration and the remember on the radio program with this huge proportion of the property is government lowered tax-exempt charities and the other is like unfunded pension liabilities so that is like when you were starting and what happened? >> the pension question second. tax-exempt institutions have been a part of the vibrancy of the city in many ways. brown university you don't have the health care and with all of the industries that surround it, and think of this goals we have. providence college. that is

i really believe steve smith who is head of the teachers' union was on the collaboration track.it all revolves around how do you evaluate teachers? the union says i didn't hire these people, you did. they don't speak english, you hired them and i had to defend them. you will find certain schools in providence that are not performing well and some are performing well. where would you move to? barrington? east greenwich? that is a nice place. there are no better high heels on the sidewalk down there. [laughter] i understand where you're going. i know it well. by grand kids go to public schools. they are classical. they're very well satisfied. anybody else? yes, sir? >> i came back to providence -- >> 91. >> i remember you on the radio program explaining how two of providence's big problems were the huge proportion of government or tax-exempt charities in hospitals and the outcome was an unfunded pension liabilities to purchase of future benefits -- so what happened? that was when you were starting. what has happened since? >> i will answer the first question about institutions. ta

i think that, you know, they were on the right track, i really believe that steve smith who's a greatguy, the head of the teachers' union, he was on the collaboration track. and it all revolves around how do you evaluate teachers. and he said, and you've -- and the union says, look, i didn't hire these people, you did. if they don't speak english, you hired them, and i have to defend them because that's what i do. you'll find certain schools in providence that are not performing well, and you're going to find certain schools that are performing well. i would, i would -- where would you move to? i mean, barrington? >> east greenwich. >> east greenwich, that's a nice place. there's no calculator clatter of high heels down there, there's no italian food down there. [laughter] right. any other -- and i understand what you're going through. i know it well. my grandkids go to public schools. and the classical. and we're well satisfyied with that. um, anybody else? yes, sir. >> i came back to providence about the time you started your second administration in -- >> '91. >> and i remember you

. >> that's totally untrue because i've had great players leave the program, steve francis, joe smith the first player to take the draft, steve was second, and chris wilcox after sophomore year. people like that that i told to leave because they could max out the amount of money they could make at that time, and i've had guys like steve blake, that i talked into staying for four years because i thought that was in their best interest to stay for four years. when you recruit somebody you tell the parents that you'll do whatever is in their best interest and you try to do that and with jordan, we tried to give him as much information as possible on what was out there, the lockout possibility and all of those things that were there which made this year a little differently and jordan and his parents chose to g but that's certainly one player that's not going determine what i do the rest of my life. >> if he had decided to stay, would you had decided to stay? >> no. i had my mind made up, and that was done. it's just -- people don't know me that well. that's just how i am. i just thought

. >> that's totally untrue because i've had great players leave the program, steve francis, joe smithirst prior to take the graph and steve wilcox off the championship team and people like that that i told to leave because they could max out the amount of money they could make at that time and i've had guys like steve blake, the and i talked about staying four years because i felt that was in their best interest to stay for four years and jordan, we tried to give them as much information as possible on what was out there and the lockout possibility and all of those things that were there that make this year differently and jordan and his patients chose to go, but that's certainly one player who will not determine what i do with the rest of my life. >> gary is a life coach, and so in all his teachings on the court and off, you could look at those young men that were sitting to the right of him today and they're all doing well in life and it's because of what he started to do with them on the court, but carried on beyond the court. that's what i'm going to be looking at for anybody who

>> smith: chip reid, thanks. president obama told steve kroft of "60 minutes" that the safety of the navy seals was uppermost on his mind as the mission to take out bin laden was being planned. what was the most difficult part? i mean, you had to decide... this was your decision. >> yeah. >> reporter: whether to proceed or not and how to proceed. what was the most difficult part of that decision? >> my number-one concern was if i send them in can i get them out? and a lot of the discussion we had during the course of planning was how do we make sure there's backup? how do we make sure there's there's redundancy built into the plan so that we had the best chance of getting our guys out. >> smith: you can see more of the president's first interview since the killing of bin laden this sunday on "60 minutes." one thing the president was able to count on in planning the raid is intelligence-- not just from satellite photos and phone records but today we learned there were c.i.a. operatives on the ground living in a safe house in the same neighb

tom hanks, michael jordan, madonna, will and jada pinkett smith. >> steve wonder, maria shriver. >> andl me for jury duty. i have oprah tickets. i have to go to the show. >> they actually moved the chicago bulls playoff game because she was taking over the stadium. >> 13,000 in the audience. >> can't wait to see it. >> they taped two shows airing next week. the final show is live. >> she doesn't even know what it will be. >> these were surprises. >> she always said she hates surprises. she better get ready for the next few days. meanwhile coming up, the term school bully is taking on new meaning. sometimes the moms are doing the bullying. if you feel you have to deal with a bully at school gatherings we have insights for you. >> like a smackdown? le. >> it's the queen bee sometimes or just mean moms starting rumors. how do you deal with it properly? some of the advice is interesting. >> yikes. what's really nice is grilling ideas way beyond hot dogs and hamburgers. our buddy sam the cooking guy is here with great recipes from grilled mashed potatoes and bacon pizza to sesame grilled mea

smith celebrating in darlington. a score to be settled between kevin harvick and kyle busch. ryan newman and juan pablo montoya, they're old news now. steve byrnes is with kyle busch. >> steve: thank you, chris. kyle busch, just out of the transporter. you know, kyle, you wanted to see the last lap-and-a-half. we have a monitor here. we'd like you to talk us through what happened between you and kevin harvick. >> no problem. tight racing after the restart there. harvick is up on the top loose and i had a run. i gave him room and he came off the wall. that is a bad angle obviously. you know, then he lifted early to let me go in turn three. i thought it was all good and he drives in the back of me there. so made my car loose all the way through the exit. made a run for the two guys to get back on the inside. then obviously, clint wrecked bouncing off of harvick. just uncalled for. you know, unacceptable racing. in the last couple of laps but i gave him room off of two. i didn't get the room. just real unfortunate. i hate we tore up a few good cars there. the double mint camry was so good, and we tied to fight our way back. passed the most c