you know, for me, i want sadie, stokley and kai to believe they can one day sit on cnn and be host, thatthey can be a united states senator, that they can be president of the united states, that they can be free, but every night, my daughter actually turns 15 today, she's able to get her permit, but i have to have a conversation with her about how she should interact with police. i have to have a conversation with her about how she should interact with other white folk who may come up to her just because of the color of her skin view her as being a threat, and so we live in a country where this level of apprehension is extremely tough, and we live in a country that's, poppy, i'll tell you this, one of the greatest flaws of this country is we're absent empathy. i always tell people and to my white friends i say, can you put yourself in the shoes of a black man or woman in this country? can you imagine if you're a white woman, can you imagine being a black woman having to send your child out and worrying about whether or not they could come home to you safely? until we can have that empath