did not stay on the sidelines, took him under protection, yes , but not directly, stolbov did everythingtechniques and talked with him, and the most important thing, according to timur, is that he, in front of witnesses, in private i treated him with respect and interest, as an equal, this increased timur’s self-esteem of everyone around him, everything began to change, are you more of such teachers? yes , pillars is a teacher from god, after timur told me all this, i went to the cadet corps to thank him, and during the conversation i asked: how did he guess that his son was being attacked and suffering from this, that’s when- then pillars told me about the victim’s smile, a smile, yes. exactly a smile, not crying, not tears, not anger, not fear, but a smile, then i, too, was not like you i understood, he explained to me that this smile cannot be confused with anything, it appears on the victim when he sees the aggressor, with this smile the victim seems to be asking for revenge, he is forced to feel sorry for her, do you understand? smile of the victim , yes, what will we do, you have n