and i live here, so -- general alfredo stroessner was the last of his kind in paraguy.arian charm. behind the scenes was another thing. utilizing an outfit of ss trained footed police, referred to as the hairy footed ones, he tortured dissidents out of helicopters over the jungle, and the list goes on. under stroessner, one in four paraguayans are said to have participated as informants on their fellow citizens. >> quite a history, violent. >> things are changing a lot. and now things are getting straight. >> sometime in mid 19th century, 1850s, my grandfather emigrated to south america, first in argentina but apparently came here. that's really almost all i know for sure. did he die by the sword? did he die of old age? did he die of syphilis? i have no idea. i'd like to know. i'd love to find a grave site. that would be great. my father died at 57. his father in, i think, in his 20s, i believe. i'll be 58 in june. i think i'm the longest-living male bourdain in possibly ever. >> so you're lonely in the world? >> i am lonely in the world, yes. if i could solve the myste