we now take a ferry from banda to subang a small group of islands off the coast of sumatra. we've heard that life there is more relaxed compared to the rest of us check. the indonesian government would like to attract more western tourists to the largely untouched islands of our check. how close to daughter is a hotel owner and a survivor of the tsunami. the tidal wave she says has left deep scones here too. after tsunami people change. because the thing is that punishment that god punished them because. misbehave they didn't pray you know they didn't be following the rules enough. society has become more conservative since the tsunami for barker's the opposite was the case she broke with religious customs and suffered for it was hard for me. to be myself and being judged and i get a bit depressed you know because. i have to do what i don't want to do. i have to. please others and. i know i don't please myself. it's not easy. but this takes us to the way. she stands out despite the headscarf that she is wearing just ok she. said thing i'm a bad girl missing out and you know.

an islamic school as a child sees herself as a citizen of the world she divides her time between subang and switzerland and between shari'a law and western abundance. back home she runs a hotel that has won many awards most of her guests are foreigners while most of her employees all single women. so many women suffer and in my place especially where we can kind of and talk i can't even make decision about my own marriage i cannot even make a decision of my study because we are a woman everything we said is a no no and i think i am extreme in this because i have been pushed down any been hiding he didn't under the under the cupboard or under the like a dead case you know but i want to open it up now because i think it's so important that i could help other woman to feel like. they are not alone you know and they are not wrong and they are good enough. barker says she hasn't turned her back on islam only on the version of it propagated as the right and only one by the fundamentalists there is a lot of tolerance in the koran so i shared that with my friends here it's a choice also and it'

an islamic school as a child sees herself as a citizen of the world she divides her time between subang and switzerland and between sharia law and western abundance. back home she runs a hotel that has won many awards most of her guests are foreigners while most of her employees are single women. so many women suffer and in my place especially where we can kind of and talk i can't even make decision about my own marriage i cannot even make a decision of my study because we are a woman everything we said is a no no and i think i am extreme in this because i have been pushed down any been. he didn't under the under the cupboard or. like a dead case you know about i want to open it up now because i think it's so important that i could help other woman to feel like. they are not alone you know and they are not wrong and they are good enough. baucus says she hasn't turned her back on the. only on the vision of it propagated as the right and only won by the fundamentalists there is a lot of tolerance you know so i share that with my friends here it's a choice also and it's not a religion it's