you're not going to look at the moon without suki me. they're not going to forgive people without the jewish ritual of plunging yourself or whatever. there are these communal rituals that have to take place otherwise your soul will be in trouble and i'm deeply impressed by this. chiefly because subjectively i know there is so much that i feel i want to do that i don't do because there is no communal structure. and they say yeah, but atheists are going into at inventing things. i feel really great. what is the? there were two parties. it was a parties? there are secular rituals, but they tend not to be structure properly and psychologically rich. take something like father's day or mother's day, which is a secular ritual, he was antecedent, but it typically ritual. the reason is that fails to recognize the number one thing which is that we don't only love our mothers or fathers. we also hate them. they've let us have been all ways. the relationship between parent and child is conflicted and having a moment which only honors the positive t