i'm susan sikora and that is on bay area focus. next. . >> welcome to the show. i'm susan sikora. last year, about half of the country's workforce were women. though we think we know how to work professionally with the opposite sex, relationship expert john gray said men and women are still blind to each other's expectations at work. he explains the blind spots and how to fix them in his new book "work with me." john gray, welcome back. always fun to have you here. >> always happy to be here. >> first, i have to ask you one thing. this is the 17th book in. >> the 24th. >> okay. who is counting. >> 17 best-sellers. >> all right. with all of those books, is this the first time you co- authored with someone? >> that is the first coauthor. >> i notice it's a woman. >> happens to rock stars after they stop dropping down. >> no, no. [ laughter ] >> this is what i want to know. >> she's a woman and has been teaching gender differences in the work place for 30 years. >> yeah, so have you. >> yes. yes. >> you have been doing this, too. >> yes. >> did you get to the point as not only the ex