we used to go to the tacoria. it was my favorite restaurant. still is. we actually visited the last time i was in california. >> and then the holidays, too, were a big part of your life. >> yeah. well, my mom's jewish so she allowed me to go with lori for most of the christian holidays. i spent just about every christmas and easter and anytime lori let me take her my mom usually let her. >> how much of a difference do you think lori made in your life? >> huge. i probably would have been lost without her. she gave me someone to be accountable to, you know, when my parents weren't necessarily holding me accountable for my actions. lori did. >> let me talk to lori about that. >> sure. >> oh, she's got tears in her eyes. you had to set boundaries for her. >> i did. you know, recently we were asked about this, and i -- when they asked her what made our relationship special, i thought she was going to say the trips to disneyland and carving pumpkins. and she said, you know, she set boundaries and she expected me to live within those boundaries, and she said no