>> i would not say tamar. i would say more grounded. , in the same way that i've been able to strike a balance between fleetwood mac and the solo, i found a wonderful balance between professional life and personal life. a lot of my friends who were spouses and parents in previous decades who were not really there for their families, i did not want to be one of those. i waited. i was lucky enough to meet someone when i was about 46 and i had my first child when i was 48. i got started late, but i also got all of that other stuff out of the way and was at a point where i could be consistent presence at home and that has really nurtured the professional side of things, too. it has been a great gift. tavis: my mother is watching and i agreed to ask this just for my mother. i do not have kids and i'm not married as yet. what is it like when you do this late in life, get married and have a baby? >> well, it is incredible. it probably is not likely that it would happen at that point. i have a lot of crazy girlfriends

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if it happened tamar to get hit the country as much better prepared now.re tougher to the estimate is journalism tougher? >> is it better equipped to handle that story? >> no because the resources are way down. there are fewer professional experienced journalists working today. >> may i disagree briefly? >> i think there are fewer but because of this, those who remain are tougher and better prepared. >> exactly, but the core what they call the iron core is smaller, but technologically there was no twitter or facebook while people did have siltstones every cell phone now mali has a camera, it has a camera and video. imagine any side of the towers if it happened today you would have pictures of what was happening on their floor so technologically definitely better equipped to be this and let me give you an example and it's one of the reasons i was happy to retire because what happens now scares me. >> what happens now scares me in terms of the way the we've report things. when the muslim shot fort hood if you remember and i think he was in a medical area whe