looking for a concise takeaway, a comfortable reaction to what sure as hell looks pretty disturbing, tamekao spends most of her time whipping, burning and generally abusing men, enthusiastically reverses roles in her long time relationship. >> it looks like a very delicate procedure. does it hurt? or does it feel good? >> this pain change to the ecstasy. she said when she was tied up, no need to think, just leave it to another. >> performance art, craft, fetish or compulsion. it's an old and shockingly omnipresent feature of japanese culture. the intricate restraint of a willing victim is not far from the surface. >> what percentage of japanese men are interested in either tying up women or -- [ speaking a foreign language ] >> the question is then how many japanese men like to be tied up? >> all of them. >> so in your experience, all japanese men like to tie women up but in your experience, all japanese men like to be tied up? ♪ >>> i have been many places on this earth and i have been to many american cities. no place in america looks as much like chernobyl as detroit. this is a fact. i w