our housewife, tamra barney and psychologist and former model, v vivian, and author of a book.u don't hide any of that. >> no. i live my life openly on the reality show. i'm one that plurtsz it out there. >> what do you say about a lot of celebrities that say, i have good genes and do yoga. >> i want to throw my wine at them. i do yoga. >> you decided to get a breast reduction. >> it was a long time coming. i had them done in my early 20s. i had them reduced on the show four years ago. i took baby steps. i knew i wanted to get rid of them. i didn't think i had the self-esteem. it was low back then, going through a divorce, my gad, if i loose my fun bags, what's going to happen? >> fun bags. >> the thing about being 40, you're a little more secure who you are, i don't know if it's being in your 40s or losing your eyesight, i feel better about myself. >> dr. dillard, what is this fascination we have, tremendous fear of what's ultimately going to happen to all of us anyway. if you're blessed, you will live to be a big old age, right? >> i'm really glad you're bringing up the psych