>> two years. >> tamron: congratulations. to stick around, what do you do if you've been ghosted? do you just keep tracking the person on the big ghostbusters? i don't know. a doctor and a match us. we will have more after the break. ♪ shine for the rest of your >> tamron: we are back in talking about ghosting. thank you so mh gstg brain. this is painful. >> this is biology meetsur is is what you can do if you first of all you need to to feel your feelings, no matter how high your self-worth is, you are going to be heard in this situation so don't tough it out, feel it. don't get stopped up with those emotions. next thing you have to do is not a build a false narrative when someone goes to you start to blame yourself, you start to feel unworthy. he started to go through the data. what did i do wrong? how did i mess this up question worked is because you feel that it does make a trip. the truth is the person who is ghosting and not dealing with their own discomfort. >> that's what omar said. i have a young lady that i mentor a

>> yes. >> tamron: so she is a lover of bad boys, and you are a question mark >> a good guy. >> tamroni'm talking about. here to explain this attraction that some women have to bad boys is dr. michael bruschi. thank you for joining us. first of all, how do you define a bad boy? >> a bad boy is someone who lacks empathy and they are just out for winning. they are all about one goal, and that is to come if it is in a relationship they have that goal and it's about achieving that goal and it could be winning your love, >> tamron: why are women attracted to bad boys? full disclosure, i've been attracted to a few in my past. >> well, they have so much confidence. there's no guilt, there is no shame. >> tamron: that draws us in? >> basking in that you kind of have that connection and that person who seems flawless is, likes you. that gives you a very wild this perfect person who exudes all of this confidence and has these great qualities. >> tamron: we know this can go bonnie and clyde, we can name the list of when it goes bad when women fall in love with bad guys but i don't know, what are

>> every dollar. >> tamron: your first year of college you had a scholarship. >> yes. >> tamron: yourd then you decided to go to a different university. >> i started scholarsp a small state school because my parents didn't have a lot of money when i graduated but then after my freshman year i went to pets and that's where the debt started racking up. >> tamron: how much was it to your? >> $25,000 a year. >> tamron: you were just watching the cow could later go while you were in school. did you ever think i'm not going to be able to pay this off or did you set think i will get a good job and i will knock this out? >> truth be told i was naive about it. i was 18 when i went to school and nobody really sits you down and go through t i noa what was going to happen when i graduated. >> tamron: so there you are. again this is happened to me at temple university. i used to tell people i had perkins loan if there was alone in it i was like where do i sign get all figure out how to pay it later because i wanted to get the education i was told it was important and i did not think of 30 days or

>> depends on the day. >> tamron: i love that answer.sk you what are your job responsibilities as an intern for the youngest elected official in the state? >> we help with this campaign on certain nights and after school some of us will make postcards. on weekends we will go knock door-to-door. >> tamron: don't get too far into this because then they get union things i don't think you can work that much without getting paid. think you guys for joining us i really appreciate it. [applause] so you pass ten bills into law as of yesterday, what is next for you after this? i know this is a political answer but my next goal is to continue to deliver for my constituents. i make no secret about my ambition to run for higher office. i don't think ambition should be a bad thing and i think if i need to get from point a to point b have to do such a good job at point a and because i'm young i have to be perfect every single day in this job. >> tamron: do you have time for dating? >> if you know a nice girl have her give me a call. i might have some

it's still weird. >> tamron: you handle it with such grace. >> think it. >> tamron: that's why we peoplefor you then, we root for you now, so happy you are on broadway. please be sure to catch jordin on "waitress" on broadway until november 24th. get your tickets. congratulations on everything. up next, we are going to share some of the tam fam comments on victoria brown on the show yesterday. i will read what you said after the show. we will be right back ♪ shine for the rest of your spewing yesterday tonya brown open up about her powerful redemption journey in and out of prison. here's what the tam fam had to share with us on this one. i got a couple comments on social media. kelly said on facebook this absolutely made my day i prayed and knew she would be released. her release was my birthday gift. someone else wrote i've been following victoria's story for years, i've used her case for training for girls in the juvenile justice system. we have to do better. so happy all of these years she's able to share her story with the world and use this platform to hopefully change the criminal

[cheers and applause] >> tamron: welcome, welcome. welcome to our house. looking up at the screen and i'm behind you. i kept on mike keep telling you all to stay woke. we have a great show for you today. colleges make billions of dollars, but the athletes as you know, get nothing. well, some parents are now taking a stand saying they can't even go to visit their children at some universities because they don't have the money. california. now the first state to sign a law that allows athletes to get paid to. going to get our thoughts on it. our parents exploiting the kids or are the kids getting a raw deal? this education really a fair exchange? and i know we all believe our kids are the smartest and most amazing but is there a secret sauce to raising a successful child? wanda durant and esther wojcicki is here, wanda is the mother of nba superstar kevin durant and esther is twin daughters are the ceos of youtube and also a genetic testing company. they will share the key to success to raising successful children. and i just lost an earring, it's a live tv.

next "tamron hall" " >> tamron: we are back with hannah who is diagnosed with terminal cancer. husband jerry is with us now. terry you have known each other since you were teenagers. she was 13. you've been married seven years so you saw something special back then and then you circled back a bit on the journey as husband and wife are seven years. you do not agree with medical aid and dying? >> it's a touchy subject. we try to break it down. first and foremost i support my wife with whatever decision she decides to make. [applause] i have to take my own selfishness and thoughts out of the way and think about what she wants. we are advocating to give people the choice did have the the t aid assisted dying. me personally i wouldn't choose that route. i would let nature take its course no matter the suffering and what it may be. however, that's the option my wife chooses i support that. [applause] >> tamron: hannah what if you told your kids must mark their in age from 21 through 24. what if you told them? >> one, i am sorry. >> tamron: why are you sorry? >> i feel like i've put a

i didn't want to open theoor. >> tamron: you knew?ew what was on the other side when i walked in, he was sitting on the sofa and

. >> tamron: confession.ot like the other ones if you're going to tell us on live tv. is eight. they actually go to different schools so i arrange for my husband to take my 12-year-old on a vacation. i went and took my 8-year-old on vacation. >> you took your favorite song on vacation and left the other one? >> they have different spring breaks >> tamron: how do they deal with it? >> they don't know yet. my older one is a preteen and the 8-year-old still wants to b. i love it. you are not actress jamie hoadley is getting a lot of attention for her instagram post for having a favorite child. she posted this picture with the caption best time ever hanging with my favorite son desi. that's right i said that i have a favorite song. although i love all three of my boys with everything i have in me, dez and i have a special bond that no one else will ever match because we have grown up together. that sparked a huge conversation online. one user said i feel so sorry for your other boys i can't imagine how this must

[cheers and applause] >> tamron: welcome, welcome, welcome. welcome to our house.ady, she sat down before i had a seat, that doesn't play here. so we all know social media can be brutal. they judge how we look, what we wear, what we say, what we eat and what we do. former miss america mallory hagan was viciously attacked for her weight not only on social media but by people who were supposed to protect her. she's going to join us today to talk about her journey to empowerment and we will meet a young woman who was bullied and body shamed. she fought back and turned of the pain and to power because enough of letting the trolls make us feel bad about ourselv ourselves. then, we need two best friends who turned $700 into a multimillion dollar company called the sakara life. [cheers and applause] how they do it and how can we all copy it? we will find out when they join us. let's go to the "cyber hall" to say hello to the tam fam. sharon watching on a kc arce hello sharon. and isaac watching on kabc. if you want to join the cyber family, go to our website, tamronhallsh

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tamron o'neill outside mercy have been on staff there for over 30 years. i did not know dr. o'neil, but wish i had. she had been a graduate student for the hospital. my husband is a prostate cancer survivor going across the hall when he heard the shots. i'm over 50 and i needed a colonoscopy, the first man to do that was getting ready to do a procedure on a patient and had to lock himself in the room when the perpetrator knocked on the door where he was. beenrganization has long an advocate of preventing gun violence. is aiolence prevention public health crisis and week think it demands a multifaceted approach. as we all owe, this is a multifaceted problem. there are different types of violence. in 2017 week published a paper on gun violence and in 2018 we developed an faq sheet on gun violence. developed during the march of this year, and in july, with 10 other professional african-american organizations we crafted a letter to all of the presidential candidate's outlining gun violence as one of our top issues of concern. andlf along with dr. stuart dr. roger mitchell can --