but this is the photo tania avalos wants you to remember of her family. her, with her husband oscar and daughter valeria. it was taken on valeria's first birthday. tania had not spoken to anyone about what happened to them. but she told us she wanted to talk about her faith, so that was our first question. tell me about your faith and how your faith has guided you through the last few months. >> tania avalos ( translated ): first, i'd like to thank god, above all for the opportunity he's giving me to share a message with the world so they can see and think that sometimes, bad decisions are really painful. >> alfonsi: tania and oscar met five years ago. she told us she was attracted to his quiet confidence. >> avalos ( translated ): ask anyone, "what's oscar like?" and they'll tell you wonderful things about him. god gave me a good man. he would say to me, "i want to be a father. i want to be a father of a little girl." and i would say, "calm down! i have to study! and so at the end, we formed a family. >> alfonsi: the daughter oscar wanted so badly was bo