we begin tonight with deborah tannen. she is a professor of length business particulars at georgetown university. she's written extensively about language and its effect on lipps. her book-- and its effect on relationships, her book you just don't understand men and women in conversation is a new york times best seller for four years. it brought to life the differences between men and women's communication styles and the implications of gender for leadership. she has written about hillary clinton for a long time, as well as about the challenge of sexism in the presidential election. i'm pleased to welcome her to this table. i've been following you for years, as you've been following hillary for years. because you write about the bind, women are in because if they are too assertive, it's a turnoff. if they're too gentle, it's a turnoff. women in leadership, they just can't win. tell us what you found. >> and it is even more complicated than just the idea of damned if you do, damned if you don't which is certainly part of i

we begin tonight with deborah tannen, a professor of linguistics at georgetown university. she's win extensively about language and its effect on relationships. her book, "you just don't understand -- women and men in conversation," was a "new york times" best-seller for four years. it brought to light the differences between men and women's communication styles and the implications of gender for leadership. she's written about hillary clinton for a long time as well as about the challenges of sexism in the presidential election. i'm pleased to luck to this taken. i've been following you for years as you have been following hillary for years because you write about the bind women are in. this -- if they're too assertive, it's a turnoff. if they're too gentle it's a turnoff. they just can't win. tell us what you have found the deborah: and the double bind is more than just the idea of you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. it's a situation where you have two requirements that you must fulfill but anything you do to fulfill one actually violates the other. when you

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thank you so much, deborah tannen. brilliant. deborah: it's been a pleasure.hank you. ♪ ♪ lesley: seven weeks remain in the 2016 presidential campaign. hillary clinton leads donald trump nationally according to an nbc news/survey monkey weekly election tracking poll. among likely voters 50% support clinton and 45% back trump. last week she led by only 4 points nationally. the race across the so-called battleground states, however, is tied 42% to 42%. voters in these states say they're still looking for change, while the partisan divide remains deep. cbs news elections director anthony joins me to discuss these developments and more. anthony, that poll says 50% for hillary clinton. is that the first time she's hit that mark? anthony: just about. this race is tight. this race is tight. i think you characterize it as tight because the polls are going to move around a little bit not just because of because there are -- but thereany are some undecided voters still out there and i think what is really happening in these poll numbers too is hillary clinton has been t

and shonda rhimes tweeted "it's likelb to have a thoughtful discussion with biff tannen from "back to the future." and ellen degeneres saying "they say 100 million people are watching these debates. if you're interested enough to watch, i hope you're interested enough to vote. we need you." and today is voter registration day as well, so. >> well, here's another way to get people out there to vote. it's with the cast of "will & grace." they reunited for a new scene of their hit show with a new message, to get out there and course that would be jack, to pick their favorite candidate. >> can you believe this is the world we live in? >> no. it's criminal. >> how is it possible that donald trump is a nominee for president of the united states? >> oh, not what i was reading. >> champ, champ, champ, champ! make america great again! >> i still haven't heard the one thing that would convince me to other! >> katy perry likes hillary. >> and bingo was her name-o! >> great to see them all back together, but don't get your hopes up too high. >> they've still got it. you can see the chemistry betw

we begin tonight with deborah tannen, a professor of linguistics at georgetown university.nguage and its effect on relationships. her book, "you just don't understand: women and men in conversation," was a "new york times" best-seller for four years. it brought to light the differences between men and women's communication styles and the implications of gender for

we begin tonight with deborah tannen, a professor of linguistics at georgetown university.vely about language and its effect on relationships. her book, "you just don't understand -- women and men in conversation," was a "new york times" best-seller for four years. it brought to light the differences between men an

we begin tonight with deborah tannen, a professor of linguistics at georgetown university. about language and its effect on relationships. her book, "you just don't understand: women and men in conversation," was a "new york times" best-seller for four years. it brought to light the differences between men and women's communication styles and the implications of gender for leadership.