tasha adams spent the last four years trying to sever her ties with rhodes and finalize a divorce.or a restraining order saying she was afraid because quote, whenever stewart rhodes is unhappy with my behavior, i want to leave the house, he doesn't like me to leave, he will draw his handgun which he always wears, rack the slide, wave it around, and then pointed at his own head. telling me my behavior has caused this. i filed for divorce three days ago and i am terrified of his response. adams found that after she says, rhodes choked their 13-year-old daughter. we only stop when their son threw him off, according to the suns account to the reporter. then challenged his son to a fight. when rhodes was finally arrested, not for assaulting abusing his family, but for attacking the capitol on assault and democracy, adams tweeted this, quote, seems like a good time to re-post that in the spring of 2018, my request for a protective order slash restraining order against my estranged husband stewart rhodes, was denied, because the court didn't believe me when i said he was a threat. that is

the cost of denying the accounts and experiences like tasha adams and her children can be steep for everyoneppen everyday, within families and workplaces and even courts. very few know more than anita hill professor of law and studies at brandeis university. most know the testimony she gave at the confirmation hearing of clarence thomas. joining us now is professor anita hill, out today with a new paperback version of her book "believing, our 30-year journey end gender violence." professor hill, thank you for being here. >> thank you. >> thank you for being on this new show. i want to start with american politics, where you have in particular, for example, a group of men, the oath keepers, whose very existence as a group is based on homophobia, racism, misogyny. you have groups like the proud boys implicated in january 6 who called them proudly, western chauvinists. how and why is this happening so prompt nently with pride and zeal, with gains we've made, feminism, what is sout, what is the poison among us that has led to groups like this? >> well, i think the patriarchky, if you will has al