joining us from colorado, a previous guest on this show, always good to see him, ted haggard, former ted's new life megachurch ministry, shocked the evangelical community to its core. all right, ted, you've been listening. what are your comments and then we'll get into specifics. what do you think overall here of what we've heard? >> yeah, i think both of them have some good points. i really appreciate what jennifer is saying and what she is going through. and i think her big premise is that she is on a journey just like every one of us are. she accepts that all of sin and falls short of the glory of god, that god is working in us, that we have his scriptures to work with, and it is true people read them differently and people interpret them differently. and the pastor has a point in saying it is his role as a pastor to try to be salt and light and represent the word the way it's read. i do think, though, that the important overall message is that we emphasize personal relationship with god. and the core of everything that we say is this wonderful delight in who jesus is and what he

those who have heard lynn's advice include ted haggard. >> i think if i did it again, she would divorce me. >> i need you to hear that, feel that and believe that and say that and know that. >> i got it. >> reporter: mr. and mrs. gary coleman. >> i have low self-esteem. >> i think he's very, very smart and very emotionally damaged. >> he didn't know how to deal with his anger. she didn't know how to deal with him. i tried to give him some, i don't know, clues or ways to handle his own emotional situation. >> you have to decide whether or not the people that stole from you are going to run your tomorrow as well as yesterday. >> reporter: why do we at home like to watch divorcing couples so much? >> i think they want to be informed and they want to take away lessons from what the judge tells them and teaches and shows them. >> mrs. miller. mr. miller. >> reporter: even amid the blow brow details of these relationsh relationships. >> he gets a check made out to him from the lowe's vanderbilt hotel. >> i went to a hotel to take a nap. >> reporter: or the crowd policing zingers she gets to l