you can't just suddenly remove yourself from these social ties and teleport yourself to another partof the network, because you're embedded, and this embeddedness matters. >> hinojosa: all right, well, let's stay with the beddedness, and the final thing that we're going to lee our viewerwith is...o, what do we do? so what does one do? like, what... if one wants to improve one's life... >> right. >> hinojosa: have more networking possibilities, improve your profession, improve your career, or improve your social life. because i kind of feel like... i'm like, you can do certain things but you can't do certain things. so what do you want our audience to say? >> all right, so i would turn that on its head and i would quote john f. kennedy and i would say, "ask not what your country can do for you-- ask what you can do for your country." so instead of saying, "how can i," you know, um... >> hinojosa: benefit. >> yeah, benefit from it, instead say to myself, "oh, my goodness, if i make a positive change in my life, if i'm kind to others, if i quit smoking, if i make an effort to be a happi