she had gotten off in this town of montrose, because telluride was snowed in, and she was halfway toa guy who worked for us somehow got a call through all of those huge mountains, and she drove back, you know, filled with dread that she was going to find out that teddy was gone. when she got back there, she immediately discovered that that was true. and from that moment on, her strength just grew and grew and grew, and holding us all together. none of the kids went back to college. all of them were college age at that time, except for teddy, and we all stayed at home, talked about it, talked often about just what he had given to our family. not what we were missing, what he was missing. and it was a wonderful time, and she drove willie all the way back across country to usc, and she's a phenomenal human being, many people think of her as a television show star. she had kate and alley, but she never ceased to be the perfect mother and a great wife, ever. >> she's wonderful. and those two boys, one of them with you today, charlie and willie, not too bad either. >> not at all. >> we sho