'cause i read not like a big, terosexual "grr" guy. there still is a lot of that assumption that goes along with the way we present ourselves. but if i don't tell somebody i'm a guy, they don't -- that i'm a trans guy, they don't know. >> and they don't need to know. >> yes and no. >> and your kids are accepting, which is lovely. >> the kids are great. and it gives me an opportunity to be an educator, to be an ally, to be a connecting point, and i think the parade does that in a huge way, all at once on one day. >> it's fantastic. and, kate, before we wrap up -- we got about a minute or so -- you want to let people know there are all sorts of resources out there. >> yeah. i mean, i think the thing that's so important about the parade is it provides a moment where we can celebrate and also reflect on the work ahead. and so nclrights.org, you talked about the map project, glsen, glsen.org, the school resources. this is the beauty of a google search. you can just search whatever the issues are, whether it's bullying help you need, whether