>> terry hong: all the time. ( laughs ) >> stahl: terry and gregor just assumed schuyler was a tomboyerred short hair and hanging out with the guys. that their daughter might be transgender never occurred to them, though there were clues. in middle school, schuyler's class had to make self-portraits in the present and the future. she came home with this. it made no sense at the time why the future meant becoming an old man with a moustache. and the confusion only worsened when puberty hit, and things like breasts began to appear. >> schuyler bailar: i was like, "that's not something i want. and i don't really know why, but i just know i don't want that." >> stahl: even though it felt wrong, schuyler saw no choice but to try and make it work as a girl: with long hair and dresses. but it backfired. she developed major eating disorders. >> stahl: bulimia? anorexia? >> terry hong: both. >> stahl: both? >> gregor bailar: it was serious. >> terry hong: we feared for his life. >> gregor bailar: yeah. >> stahl: they postponed schuyler's going to harvard and got her help at an eating disorders