this all started believe it or not, the book business started with my inspiration from terry mcmillanut to terry mcmillan, you're my inspiration for writing more than anyone else was. one of the things that everybody knows you talk about is relationship. how did you get so invested in the male and female relationships? >> you think how can you have a conversation without talking about relationships. i said this yesterday, if you're being cheated on, cheating is cheating. dl is dl. we talk about it, everybody is up in arms. what's the problem? get a picture. it's serious for the man who got cheated on. >> that's true. >> we'll talk about that later. >> you love the romantic relationships especially. >> people love you because you tell them what to do in their relationship with their significant others. >> i love to get deep into what women really want, what women feel and also men's insecurities because we have a lot of insecurities when it comes to revealing our emotion which is why i wrote the first novel. >> so if people were to get one piece of advice from your body of work around