it's terry rasmussen. >> finding out his real name, terry rasmussen, now we had something to go on tot seems to be a pretty conventional life up until a point. he was born out in colorado. he got married, had four kids. so, in identifying terry rasmussen, barbara rae-venter has also, of course, identified his whole family and his immediate family doesn't have any idea what kind of news they're about to get. >> my mother calls me, and she's, like, the new hampshire state police cold case unit wants to come and talk to me. >> just imagine that state police from a different state give you a call and say they want to talk to you about something that pertains to your father. remember, the last time they saw him was decades ago. his children were very young when he left. >> i'm at work plugging away, and i see these two people from the new hampshire cold case unit come into the lobby. they laid the story out for me that was what had happened to my father. if my mother wouldn't have left my father, it could have been me. would have been me. check out this one. long hair, loves to hike and pl