these grandparents are raising thatwho live in a world they could not imagine. >> there are basic --avis: right and wrong? >> most of these children who have experienced some kind of emotional abuse, they know they are loved which every child -- anybody would want. their grandparents, they show them the kind of affection and attention that they were not getting at home. any fool would like that. i have always thought this, when you see the super bowl after the games, you often hear when they put the microphone up to the player, what about this play and he says, i want to say hi to my grandma. how many of them say their grandmother or their mother, really their wives -- rarely their wives but they're always thinking their grandmother. that is a lot of them and i often wondered how did they get there? hanked their grandparents because the get the kind of love and attention that apparently they did not get when they were younger. tavis: how do we as a society and how does terry mcmillan in , how do weyou?" indict those parents? >> i do not know how -- technically, the way i tell the sto