>> well, that is, i feel like, i hadn't thought about it, i have not thought about that at the metalevel. i certainly experienced in this last year and a half women having these others backs in a way that is remarkable. people used to say women -- grabber. >> but also what are you going to do? >> it is, nicole has been a good friend me. when president obama had to go back to iraq because of the ices, nicole reached out, let me explain to you, so-and-so doesn't say something praise in the hallway, when they get come when the camera, when casey checks in with them at the standup, nicole could've said really? wow, barack obama didn't take care of iraq, that's weird. you should talk a lot about it. you are in the same situation i was in and bloody reach out and help you. that's what i love about women. what i find out in my experience of this book, can you help me? yes, what can we do? we're so excited. but you see wendy davis who ran for senate, ran for governor in texas. she's like i'm doing this, can help me? yes, i can help you. you should be connected with this person or that person. am