thomas burchard.good listener, being a psychiatrist, but he's -- was also an extremely good talker, conversationalist. so sometimes i would wonder, did he ever give his patients a chance to talk? >> their romance blossomed. they'd keep in touch via email, he'd visit her in l.a., where she'd go to museums with tom, and he'd always be looking the bookish part. >> tom's uniform, which he had worn for 40 years -- khaki pants, white dress shirt, and a bow tie, every day. >> two years or so into their relationship, around 2004, judy and her four kids move in with builds this new life together. one of their favorite pastimes, catching a show at the downtown theater. >> i know we went to a "weird" al yankovic concert here. >> he was awesome, right? >> i liked that. i really enjoyed that one. >> judy would learn just how respected, really even revered, dr. burchard was in this area by his colleagues and by parents of his patients at community hospital of the monterey peninsula, where he worked for 40 years. ma