manners, thomas farley. >> hi, thomas. >> good morning. >> and this s is the crack staff that we have invited to the party. >> even though we don't like some of them. >> we especially don't like absent albert, and that is a know show down there and that is his chair next to terrence. what do you do with a no-show. >> and we all know how the holidays can be stressful for everyone, and why is he not here? worry d worried about the old family rivalries or some wonderful opportunity to go skiing. >> so he withdrew, because he did didn't let you know. >> and if he didn't let you know, that is an issue, but if he simply can't make it, don't lay a guilt trip on him. >> and what about the texting terrence is there on the end sitting on the phone. and terrence, what are you doing? >> i am texting my friend. >> what do you do with somebody like terrence. >> who is so rude. >> i know. >> and a couple of thing s s. first of all, i would like to the know who terrence is texting so much. >> that friend. >> maybe the friend should be here at the dinner so they are not texting each other, but here ta

. >> thomas farley. >> this is our crack staff. he is a no-show. that's his chair down there. what do you do when someone's a no show? >> we all know how the holidays can be stressful for everyone. let's find out why they're not here. if you are worried about old family rivalries or did he have a wonderful opportunity to go skiing. >> he withdrew but conditions let you know that he wasn't coming. >> if he simply cannot make it, you should not lay a guilt trip on him. >> what about texting parents down there. texting terrence is down there. what are you doing? >> i'm just texting my friend. >> what do you do when you have someone just like terrence. >> who's so rude! >> i know. >> i'd like to know who terrence is texting so much. >> he said his friend. >> maybe that friend should be here at the dinner so that they're not texting one another, they're sitting next to one another talking. >> how do you deal with it? >> for starters, before the meal, you want to give him platters to be passing around. >> give the man a job. >> give him something to do besides holding the phone. >>